i knew this girl in the eighth grade and liked her from the very start its been 2 years since we parted ways and i have thought about her literally everday since.but recently i have been talking to her on the computer and learned that she has 2 kids and a boyfriend i can hardly sleep at night i keep thinking about her should i tell her how i feel or just say nothing and keep being her friend. is this love?
2007-12-26 11:09:20 · 10 answers · asked by koga 777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks very much everyone this helped a lot
2007-12-26 11:45:20 · update #1
You are most likely 'in love'. But, you do not know yet what it is to love. Love begins as a feeling, but is maintained by actively giving love. There are as many loves as their are flowers in a field or stars in the skies. Love can last for a minute, a day, a month, a year, a lifetime. Love begins with tingles and dreamy thoughts of holding hands and being together and staying in a state of delerious love forever. Love becomes real when compadability is complete. Love is your partner having the flu, but kissing her goodnight anyways. Love is sacrificing what you want for what is best for both of you. Love is compassionately cleaning up throwup from a small child at 9pm, and then again at 11pm, and then again at 3am just when you have finally fallen back asleep. Love is being able to pull a sword out of a stone, because you must do whatever is necessary to protect and defend that which you love. Love does not take away but gives back. Love is not an obsession. Love is not a fantasy. True love that lasts a lifetime is no miracle, it is work and dedication made real. So, I ask you - do you love or are you merely in love?
2007-12-26 11:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she and her boyfriend are in a committed relationship, and those children are both his and her's, then don't say anything, take some time to get away and find someone new. It may happen for you in the future, but for now, you need to let her go. If she's not happy in her relationship, still don't say anything because you don't want to jeopardize her happiness for something that could possibly just be infatuation. If it's meant to happen for the two of you, then it will, but saying something to her might damage your friendship.
2007-12-26 11:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lost & Wandering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you can't sleep at night . If it bothers or hurts you that much . Then say something. Either way you need to know and may be she does to. Hope your able to sleep soon.: )
2007-12-26 11:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How am I supposed to know? I don't know how you feel. This is something you have to figure out yourself. But it looks like she is taken dude. Good luck on findin a lady.
2007-12-26 11:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Breezy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like infatuation to me.I can't see any point in telling her how you feel, but if you can do it, I would stay being her friend. Hope this helps.
2007-12-26 11:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by SKCave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone...telling her what u feel wont make any sense...but it could turn down her relationship with u....specially that she has 2 kids and a bf...that means she dont and didnt like u.
2007-12-26 11:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by Nelan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg so what ur saying is ur in 10th grade and she has 2 kids
2007-12-26 11:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is love.
but u should tell her how u feel..
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Good Luck!!!
2007-12-26 11:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, just move on
2007-12-26 11:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by Vincent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
2007-12-26 11:11:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋