He used to like me a lot before we went out but now that he has me it seems like he isn't as interested or anything..he doesn't really call me when we were supposed to have plans and I'm not sure why this is..I'm not needy or clingy. I can be a ***** when he does something wrong but that's the only thing that I can think of..how can I get him back into liking me the way he used to? There's still feelings there it's just I feel he isn't really valueing me anymore. We've only been dating a couple months not a long time..so what can I do?
2007-12-26 11:07:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is probably sick of the sound of your voice over the phone after all of this time.
2007-12-26 11:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
Girls Girls....When you dont like something in ur relationship, or something is wrong bothering you , or hurting you, you let ur partner know as soon as posible face to face talk about ur relationship and ask him what bothers him ect....If that dosent work, you tell him u want a break to see his reaction if he dosent care his gonna let u go, if u does care his gonna be thre treating u as a princess as u should be treated~~~...my boyfriend and i been together for 14months...and his my friend, borfriend,...we often talk about what we need to improve or or dislikes we have learned to say im sorry when we mes up...go out try new adventures with him, but dont be too needy or call him every 30 mintutes to see what his doing...give him space to miss you!......talk to him, if his not intrested let him go........theres someone better always
2007-12-26 19:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by JESUSBEAUTIFULLDOLLY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you guys have been only dating for a few months, then it seems like he has his mind on something/someone else or he is too occupied with other things like family/financial problems, school or/and work.
The first few years should always be the best with the best love life and the best fun and lots of quality time. Maybe you need to upgrade him LOL
2007-12-26 19:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by sexyexotik 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's all part of having a relationship. You just need to find a new way to keep him interested. Get him out of your regular routine dating and do something different.
2007-12-26 19:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by The Midnight Rider 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
After the first rush, the attention ebbs down. It's just normal aging of the relationship.
2007-12-26 19:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Frosty 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hun? just have a brief conversation with him...let him know how u feel and that maybe its best u guys have some space. in that time, date other people! u have a life! dont let him ruin who u r!
u know ur better than that! ok?
let me know what happens if u can!
goodluck sweetie!!!!
femz~
2007-12-26 19:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by femz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be concerened also. But......at this point just leave him. He needs some kind of 'space' for some reason. Just carry on with what you do. Do let it get to you.
Guys do this ............
2007-12-26 19:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some relationships just burn out faster than others. Nothing is forever.
2007-12-26 19:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by DeFreeze 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
ive been in that situation before and dear it sounds like he is finding it somewhere else
2007-12-26 19:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Fun C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he just likes the chase. Start ignoring him and he will want you more, just like what he is doing to you
2007-12-26 19:14:37 · answer #10 · answered by rocklobzter31 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋