so basically we were in chumash class (chumash is the study of the 5 books of the torah if you didn't know) and we were learning about Dinah and Prince Schechem. so basically it went like this:
So we learned that in the city schechem dinah one day got bored because she had no one to play with so she went out of the tent to go find some girls to be friends with and play with and the prince saw her and raped her
so my teacher (a woman) said: "shechem raped dinah because dinah left her tent and went outside" (this is exactly what she said no lie)
i mean dinah just went out to find GIRL FRIENDS because she was BORED...its totally blaming the girl for what the man did
i don't get it...what am i supposed to think about chabad now?
can someone explain this to me?
(i asked the teacher about it after she said it but she brushed off my question and wouldnt give me an answer and i've heard this explanation a few other times from chabad--NEVER from rabbis of other branches of judaism
2007-12-26 10:45:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
not even other orthodox branches like modern orthodox...
2007-12-26 10:45:34 · update #1
THE TEACHER SAID THAT WAS AN EXPLANATION THE RABBIS GIVE
not that it said that in the actual text
2007-12-26 11:06:57 · update #2
Dinah Gets into Trouble
DO YOU see who Di′nah is going to visit? She is going to see some of the girls who live in the land of Ca′naan. Would her father Jacob be happy about this? To help answer this question, try to remember what Abraham and Isaac thought about the women in Ca′naan.
Did Abraham want his son Isaac to marry a girl from Ca′naan? No, he did not. Did Isaac and Re·bek′ah want their son Jacob to marry a Ca′naan·ite girl? No, they did not. Do you know why?
It was because these people in Ca′naan worshiped false gods. They were not good people to have as husbands and wives, and they weren’t good people to have as close friends. So we can be sure that Jacob would not be pleased that his daughter was making friends with these Ca′naan·ite girls.
Sure enough, Di′nah got into trouble. Can you see that Ca′naan·ite man in the picture who is looking at Di′nah? His name is She′chem. One day when Di′nah came on a visit, She′chem took Di′nah and forced her to lie down with him. This was wrong, because only married men and women are supposed to lie down together. This bad thing that She′chem did to Di′nah led to a lot more trouble.
When Di′nah’s brothers heard about what had happened, they were very angry. Two of them, Sim′e·on and Le′vi, were so angry that they took swords and went into the city and caught the men by surprise. They and their brothers killed She′chem and all the other men. Jacob was angry because his sons did this bad thing.
How did all this trouble get started? It was because Di′nah made friends with people who did not obey God’s laws. We will not want to make such friends, will we?
Genesis 34:1-31.
2007-12-26 11:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the key in this story is the word outside. the meaning is not at face value . It is meant to go beyond.....Dinah went outside - outside the bounds of the neighborhood / outside the confines of Juadaic dogma.
2007-12-27 00:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by piperdo822 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋