2007-12-26 09:33:38 · 12 answers · asked by Holly K 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
how should i tell my boyfriend i am
2007-12-27 04:57:18 · update #1
1) Tell your boyfriend
2) Tell your parents and the boys parents.
3) Make an appointment to see your local doctor and then your Obstetrician/Gynaecologist.
You will have to make several decisions, and it is best to do this with your parents and possibly your boyfriend together, and maybe even his parents.
a) Do you want to have the child, and if so, do you want to keep the child and raise it or have it adopted?
b) If you do not want to continue with the pregnancy, where and when do you wish to have it terminated.
You must remember that having a child is a natural part of life, but it can, and will, affect the rest of your life.
Raising children takes a lot of effort and a lot of your time. This will affect your ability to attend school, to study and to therefore find a good job and future.
If your parents are willing to assist you with looking after the child and possibly your boyfriend also assisting when he can, you may be able to cope. IT WILL BE DIFFICULT, but it can be done.
2007-12-26 09:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Walter B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first thing i would do is talk to ma babys dad and see what he thinks..if the babys daddy isnt around anymore i would tell my parennts right away because no matter how mean they r or how mad u think they would be they love u and they have to be there for you i was scared to tell them i thought they would freak but they didnt they were behind me the whole way i was 18 when i got pregnant im 36 weeks now and im having a baby boy so dont be scared or do something that you will regre3t later on. being a mom at first seems scary but then youll get the idea that yoyr gonna be a mom and youll be happy...TRust mE
2007-12-26 17:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by lilangel_2158 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well my advise for you is to talk to your baby daddy first, make sure that his going to have your back all the way, second I think you should really talk to your parents about it. I know your scared and confuse and there's alot of things going thru your mind right know but I think telling your parents would be the best thing, you would feel free of have told them the truth. And I think financially wise it's not hard, babies are a blessing in your life actually. I know your young and everything but just see it like this things happen for a reason and that baby is a big reason in your life that along the way, you'll know. I wish you lots of luck...
And may god bless you and your new special one...
Just remember pray and god will guide every step of the way.
2007-12-26 17:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by D'' 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your parents and call an OBGYN to make an appointment.
In the meantime-
Eat very healthy- fruits, veggies and lean meats.
Drink a lot of water and other drinks (No caffeine or alcohol)
No smoking, alcohol or drugs
Light exercise is good- walking especially
Take prenatal vitamins- you can purchase them at Walgreens, CVS, Rite Aid, Super D, etc.
Congratulations and good luck!
2007-12-26 17:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to do is tell your parents, then you need to call the OBGYN to confirm that you actually are pregnant... it's important to go to the doctor as soon as possible, your first three months are the most crucial... I wish you the best of luck... dont stress I'm sure your parents will help you with everything you need!
2007-12-26 17:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
1. tell a trusted adult
2. go to a health center/see a doctor, being 14 and preggers can be dangerous!
3. consider adoption
4. be a grown up and choose a soloution that will best benefit your child
2007-12-26 17:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Fernella13 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first off u have to tell your parents, or a really trusted adult (like older sister or sumtin) they will lead you on. make sure u schedule a dr. appointment soon, and apply for medicaid if u dont have an insurance. make sure you get some prenatal vitamins as well.
2007-12-26 17:38:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
it may seem hard but you need to sit down with your parents and tell them...... they have loved you for 14 years they are not going to reject you now..... you also need to get care from a ob/gyn asap.... good luck
2007-12-26 17:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by mirnmirc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well honey I don't know what your going through but I know it's scary but keep your child tell you parents they will be disappointed but they will still love you a baby is a precious gift from god love your child .don't think all your dreams are gone now you can still succeded in life.
2007-12-26 22:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by beauty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call an ob/gyn, be seen for prenatal appointments.
Good luck.
2007-12-26 17:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by AV 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋