yea....im just a normal guy but unlike a lot of guys i know i am a really sensitive person, what i mean is that if im not afraid to admit if i have a problem and i need help, ill admit that even though im a guy if im going through emotional problems i may cry a little, if im feeling down ill even write poetry to make myself feel better, or if my friends are feeling down ill try to be there and help them out. Like a really close friend of mine i write poems for because they make her happy, which makes me happy. I realize im a sensitive person, and around some friends i can be myself, but around others (mainly a few of my guy friends) i feel like they would ridicule me if i act how i really am because they will see me as a sissy or gay or something (and im not lol i just care more about people). Is there something wrong with the way i am?
2007-12-26 08:37:37 · 30 answers · asked by xxlostbutnevergonexx 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
in reply to what someone said, yea i still take stuff like a man, i know how to do that, i just seem to care more that most guys
2007-12-26 08:41:39 · update #1
lol and also to what someone said, im not emo
2007-12-26 08:51:47 · update #2
my last edit lol, im not emo, i dont cry over stupid things like a burnt dinner, i just have a deeper caring for other people
2007-12-26 08:53:30 · update #3
Not at all! You are what you are. If anyone says otherwise, who cares! I always have thought sensitive guys were just nicer overall! They aren't full of themselves and annoying, which is definitely a good thing. Don't feel bad for one second how you are! I encourage it!!! Some guys think it's uncool to be like that, but pay no attention to them cause they are immature and cruel 9/10 times. It doesn't matter what they think about you, so don't be afraid to be who you are.
2007-12-26 08:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by trees are great 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's only a problem if you ever plan on having sex. Women will tell you all day, every day, that they just *sigh* LOVE sensitive guys, but at the end of the night, they're sleeping with the guy that isn't likely to burst into tears over a flat tire or burned dinner. You sound like you might have a slight case of emo. My suggestion is to get a haircut and wait about three years, it should clear up.
2007-12-26 08:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by NameGoesHere 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is nothing wrong with being a sensitive man. Don't buy into the stereotype that you have to be a macho jerk to be a real man. Real men cry when they're upset and they write poetry and express themselves in artist ways. You're a much healthier man for being in touch with your emotions.
2007-12-26 08:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by mollyflan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, there's nothing wrong with guy's being sensitive.
It's a lot better to show your emotions than bottle them up anyway. As for your guy friends ridiculing you...they're just jealous because they haven't learnt how to deal with their emotions yet and they don't know how to care for people so don't let it bother you.
Be proud of the way you are =]
2007-12-26 08:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing wrong is that there aren't more guys like you!
No, there's nothing wrong with you. You have an emotional sensitivity far beyond your years and gender.
You'll make a fabulous husband one day. I know this, because mine is the sweetest most sensitive man on earth.
2007-12-26 08:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by LodiGirl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No there isn't. We are in the same boat my friend. It is just that I hide it really well underneath a mask. My grief has slipped out once or twice and it has gone noticed but I vowed to never let that happen again. Smile when you think you should, when people want you to. And please do not glorify your sensitivity, your pic is a mockery.
2007-12-26 08:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are ok, but sensitivity is a feminine trait... Both men and women have certain degrees of sensitivity, women tend to have more... Your friends may tease you because of this.. Get new friends and continue to be YOU!!
2007-12-26 08:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by A W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course theres nothing wrong with you. your just a little more emotional than most, so what that mean your different, it means your not boring. girls like that. as long as you dont cry to much i think your fine. you just care about people. :)
2007-12-26 08:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by 2_sexy_for_my_shirt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with how you are. And when you get older, your girl will love this side of you. It bothers your guy friends cuz it makes them question yours and their masculinity. Dont feel bad about who you are, feel good about it.
2007-12-26 08:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. Just be who you are, and if someone can't deal with it, it's their problem. Don't ever feel like you need to pretend to be someone you're not.
2007-12-26 08:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋