My Ant is in the Hosptial and also we don't know if she going to make it or not ? I have been praying and crying she has been is the Hosp Thursday - Wensday she isnot doing good at all what Do we do
2007-12-26 08:02:29 · 10 answers · asked by you fine 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
Get family together. Support each other. It is a tough time. It is okay to cry. Hopefully someone can take the lead when things need to be done. If you need more support, consider a grief support group later.
2007-12-26 13:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend as much time with her as you can as a family,and pray together maybe have your family pastor come by and pray with the family. Do activities with her if she is capable like cards, look at pictures, watch old movies. Most importantly Talk it can be about anything ask her things you have always wanted to know about her or something. Because if she doesn't make it (god bless her) you may regret not spending thoughs last moments with her.
2007-12-26 21:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick together as a family. I lost my Mom to cancer in 2006 and it helped me so much to know that my family was there, that they loved me and loved her. I don't know what I would have done without them.
Go see her if you can. I believe that even when people are suffering like that and may be on the verge of death they still somehow know that you're there and that you love them.
Talk to her docs and nurses about her situation and ask what are the best things that you as a family can do for her.
There's nothing I (or anyone) can say that can make this easier or better. Just know that you are not alone.
Rebecca
2007-12-26 16:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by becka212 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At this point her life is resting in the hands of the good doctors, her will to live and her God. Continue what you are already doing. It is all you can do. Hold her hand and let her know that she is loved. If she survives this low time, get her on a diet high in fruits and veggies. Get a copy of Dr. Campbell's good "The China Study".
2007-12-26 18:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by Lyn B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, continue to pray and believe that your Aunt is already healed of the cancer. My daughter was diagnosed with Leukemia when she was seven years old and she had to have a bone marrow transplant to survive. Although, she went through so much, I never stopped believing and praying. Don't lose faith. Pray to God and Jesus Christ to continue to keep you strong. If your aunt does not know Jesus, help her to say a prayer to invite Jesus into her heart. If she can't speak right now, then you pray the prayer to her while holding her hand. God Bless You.
2007-12-26 16:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by smiles 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would pray and hope for the best, while bracing myself for the worst. Your aunt if you are close will know you are scared but try to be brave for her. If everyone around her looks all gloomy and sad and like they lost hope, so will she.
2007-12-26 16:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hon sorry to hear that seems like you had arough x-mass theres not much you can do but pray i hope she gets better i think about it this way if someone Is in the hospital and they are suffering is better for them to rest their souls up in heaven with no suffering in these earth eventhow we wont see them again we would always have them in our hearts is the best place we can keep them.
2007-12-26 16:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Que lo what! 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
pray
2007-12-26 17:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by Cynthia H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and brace yourself.
2007-12-26 16:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by frozen_in_silenc3 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
pray!!!
2007-12-26 16:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by goldleader272000 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋