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if my man went to jail for grabing my arm and they wont let me see him in jail can we get back together when he get's out we did last time will it hurt again?i also live in g.a if any one knows the laws here.

2007-12-26 06:45:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government Law Enforcement & Police

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You can't visit him in jail and will not be allowed to see him after he is released while any protection order remains in force.

Now is the time for you to be sure he is seeking help for anger issues. If you also have anger issues, you should seek help as well. Continuing a relationship that has already become violent without serious help is a HUGE mistake.

He needs to be punished for what happened and you need to cooperate with the prosecution. Otherwise nothing is learned.

2007-12-26 06:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by davidmi711 7 · 0 0

The same thing is true regardless of where you are:

If a man is in jail because you put him there by providing testimony or evidence of a crime that he committed against your person, the only reason they have for keeping you from seeing him is that you might sense some remorse for having put him in there, and you might decide to recant your statement or your testimony, which might put him on the streets again, which has a very big tendency to make the prosecution and the other prosecutory witnesses look like fools, which could then hurt their careers.

If you want to see the guy, go see the guy.

If you want to get back together with him, go see the guy.

If you want to go into marital counselling, even if you're not married, go see the guy.

If you want to get him out of jail earlier, go see the guy.

If you want to punish the bullies who put him in there for being bullies instead of actually protecting the citizenry like they're supposed to have been sworn so to do, then go see the guy.

Especially if the only reason he's there is because he grabbed your arm.

Dim David's answer (above) falls short of being a good answer on more than one level.

Just like there is no such thing as a protective order that prevents both parties from appearing together in a courtroom proceeding, which of course is due to the fact that there is supposed to be a much greater number of badge-bearers than the parties in question and therefore unlikely for any situation to arise where either party needs any actual protection from each other, it is also quite true that the parties CAN appear together in police stations without either being in violation of the order simply because of the existence of a particular protective order. Same thing goes for any location of high-badge-bearer concentration, like city hall, the county seat offices, the state legislature buildings... or a jail.

But, badge-bearing bullies like dim-star David (above) appears to be, will lie to you like he just did, simply out of the inhernet laziness of law-enforcement offciers.

If the jerks in control of the jail don't want to let you in to see him, it's not too hard to get a court to rescind the protective order.

Then there's dimstar david's uberly superior knowledge than anybody else's about exactly what you and that guy of yours need.

Quite frankly, I would ignore ANY advice from such a dim contributor, even the middle paragraph.

I would also ignore the answer between mine and dim star david's.

2007-12-26 15:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Robert G 5 · 0 1

So are you a female named Harold or is this a floppy wristed question???

2007-12-26 14:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by Tommy G 3 · 0 1

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