He was out of my life for like 3 months,when we finally got back in touch with each other I was still in love with him so we started talking again little did i know that the same thing is going to happen all over again. he is a coward and i just want to do something to hurt him so that he can feel a little of the pain that he caused me. i have never done the whole revenge thing but why would he even come back into my life to only dissappoint me and he claims to love me. I wanna do like some brandy type stuff on a thin line between love and hate any suggestions.
2007-12-26 05:52:09 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Revenge will only serve to hurt you.
He sounds immature and doesn't know what he wants.
You gave him a second chance. That was fair enough, but don't make the same mistake again.
Your revenge will come later when he asks for another chance and you smile sweetly and say...no thanks...I have learned my lesson.
And just go out for awhile (remember you're on the rebound so don't get real serious for a time.
He a loser and he's lost a good thing.
Let that knowledge be your revenge.
2007-12-26 05:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by LaVere B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would guess that he wasn't trying to hurt you by coming back after 3 months of no contact. Maybe he just missed you and thought he could make it work this time, but the issues that made him break up with you the 1st time are still there.
I went through something similar. I dated a guy for like 3 mos. He broke up with me and then we got back together 3 mos. later and dated for another 2-3 mos. and he broke up with me again. In that case, he was just the kind of person who got sick of people easily. He tended to not be around anyone (guy or girl, dating or friends) for more than 2 or 3 months before he quit hanging out with them. Eventually he found a girl he could put up with for more than 3 months and he married her.
As far as revenge, I would say there is no point. I doubt that his intention was actually to hurt you. I think he's probably as confused about what happened as you are. Move on and if he comes back again, don't take him back, cause you know where it's going to end.
2007-12-26 06:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jenni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get revenge is to forget & just don't ever speak to him again.
Let him know that you are a much better & wiser person & can go on without him.
Your pain will subside & then you will be proud of yourself for being the stronger & better person that you are.
Revenge has a way of backfiring & will only hurt yourself!
Keep yourself busy with some fun things to do.
2007-12-26 06:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by ang253 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, move on with your life. Living well is the best revenge. All of us at some time or another want revenge on someone, but we seldom do get it. And besides, it is usually hollow once we do.
So, next time you see the jerk, just be polite but do not totally ignore him. Over time he'll get the picture and you'll be rid of him for good. Just do not be surprised if you wants you again.
2007-12-26 05:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by Slick98 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge may feel like the answer but its only going to make YOU feel worse. The best revenge is just to get on with your life and live well and put him behind you.
2007-12-26 05:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by megalomaniac 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont ! Revenger = Pain for you , Trust me !
Iv been there and done it mate . Worse thing to do is try get someone back . Walk away and live another day and forget it ! Thats Revenge . Peace
2007-12-26 05:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
revenge is rarely satisfying, and most times comes back to haunt you. You don't seem like a person that would purposely hurt someone. Why stoop to his level? Pick yourself up, shake it off and be the best person you can be. Let him go on being the asshole he is and he will reap what he sows, in time
2007-12-26 05:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not the answer. You need to simply leave him alone. He came back and did the same thing, cause he knew he could, and he'll do it again if he wants. You have let him know that he can't do that to you.
2007-12-26 05:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by Qwee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. The best revenge is to do well.
If you actually go out of your way to hurt him, in someway or another, Karma will wheel around to snap at you, therefore not making REVENGE worth it.
2007-12-26 05:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by IJToomer 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Stay the hell away from him. You don't need to get revenge on him...indicating that you don't want that person in your life by ceasing all contact with them is more than enough revenge. It's like telling that person "you can walk away...to me you're dead and forgotten". Believe me...death isn't as bad as being FORGOTTEN. To be forgotten is to be entirely erased and become NOTHING to whoever forgets the person.
2007-12-26 05:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by Class 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋