i really do love him i just don't want to have sex
all opinons are needed
2007-12-26 05:45:41 · 16 answers · asked by regina4eva2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you do love him but you don't have to show it by having sex. You can show you love someone in other ways. You should not be pressured to do something so serious. If he really pressures you he has the problem and might not really love you. He should respect your decision no matter what. Hope that helps.
Best wishes.
:-)
2007-12-26 06:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by suzyqnelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're a GODDESS. What ideal has any guy in this international to return to you and insist something from you that's no longer his to call for? NONE. you ought to never do something you do no longer prefer to do. If he needs intercourse without the affection, that's what the residences ten minutes outdoors of vegas are for. Its your physique, no longer his. You kicked him to the shrink as quickly as for a robust reason, do no longer %. up the trash lower back! Mark him as "unsafe ingredients, do no longer Recycle."
2016-11-25 01:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to have sex, don't. If he is pulling the **** where if you love him you will have sex with him... He doesn't respect you. He should be willing to wait, and if he isn't, you are the one that is going to get hurt. You should tell him exactly how you feel. If you cannot change his mind about wanting to wait for sex, you might consider leaving him, it is not a good situation for you, and I wouldn't trust someone who isn't willing to respect your wishes. I hope the best for you, good luck
2007-12-26 05:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by stormdog3269 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DON'T do anything you don't want to. If he loves you, then he will respect your wishes and wait until you are ready. He might get frustrated, explain to him why you don't want to... want to be married, scared, personal issues, etc. Communication is very important in a relationship, especially if you are thinking of taking it to a more intimate level. If he loves you, and he's not only trying to get in your pants, he will understand.
2007-12-26 05:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by meyez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT..alot of guys say that if u love them u'll do it..and if u do it then u'll be hurt cuz then he's gonna leave cuz thats all he wanted..ur body is a temple and is very special..WAIT TIL UR MARRIED..if he truly loves u then he wouldnt be asking u to have sex with him..THINK SMART & DO THE RIGHT THING..
hope this helps answer ur question!
2007-12-26 05:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Fresh/.Soul 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is not about manipulation. It is not I love you if you do this for me. It is I love you because of who you are and how you make me feel. When you love someone you put their needs before your own. He is not doing that. Instead he is playing with your emotions to get what he wants. Drop him fast. You will regret it because you're not ready. That is a huge step and should be taken when YOU are ready. Take care of yourself!
2007-12-26 05:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him you'd want to have sex,
Bull crap.
If he'd love you, he wouldn't lie to you like that.
Honestly, he's just a horny jerk trying to guilt you into having sex with him.
I agree with the first answer, No Marriage, No Sex, thats how it should be.
Screw your boyfriend! (not literally, lol) you should dump him, he just wants to have sex with you, what will it be next? Threesomes with bisexual hookers?
Tell him, if you love me, then you'd wait, at least your not giving him BS on that,
T.M.
2007-12-26 11:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life and your body. Don't be pressured into doing something you don't want to do... about this, or anything else. Such pressure can be signs of an abusive personality. And, most importantly, if he loves you, he will respect your decisions.
2007-12-26 05:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Him saying that you would do it if you loved him is nothing more than emotional blackmail. You need to tell him if he loved you, he would respect your decision not to have sex and not try to lay guilt trips on you.
2007-12-26 05:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
the question is do he love you(,NO)HE DON'T LOVE YOU,love is powerful and if you are smarter than that.you can find someone who will and can respect your wishes.baby as long as us women have vagina's we rule the universe be strong minded can't no man force sex on you. if you aren't ready than he'll have to find someone who will be willing to perform sex when he needs it.
2007-12-26 06:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by nickkie s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋