My and this boy have been together for two years and we broke up like a month ago and we've been trying to work things out...well at times he aggravates me and does things that we disccused that i dont like such as his attitude. Basically he makes me angry sometimes and just makes me wonder.."since we're not together should we just let it go because it's been a month and we're still not back together" and thats because of my choice. I mean i do love him but.. if we're not together yet that means something right??
2007-12-26 04:43:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make a list and weigh out your pros and cons on this guy. If your cons are much bigger then you need to call it quits. Have two of your friends write down the things that you tell them you like and don't like, then have them give you their list and you will see for yourself if it's time to leave or continue to try and work it out. Good Luck
2007-12-26 04:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by dala_o_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if he hasn't found another girl by now that means he is holding out for you or something better. You better quit looking at all of the wrongs and look at the rights. If the wrongs out weighs the rights then forget about his butt! If he is not trying to get back with you then why are you even trying to be bothered. I don't truely know what the problem is! You can love someone and still hate to b with them.
2007-12-26 12:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by cutiestorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have tried working things out and the problems are still there, then you should just call it quits.
There is no need to waste any more time on a situation that you know will not workout in the long run.
2007-12-26 12:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by CatNip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it strictly means is you haven't found a solution yet. You may have run out of patience with waiting, or motivation to bring this situation to a positive conclusion. You may love him (as you claim), but it doesn't seem to be enough because you're tired of trying. Do you disagree?
2007-12-26 13:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feeling.
Try to remember why you broke up in the first place and ask yourself why you want to be with him now.
Is it for comfort? Security? Do you both bring out the best in each other?
You can't change people or expect them to change for you. Love is accepting someone for who they are, all their faults, even the stuff that pisses you off and choosing to deal with it.
Good luck.
2007-12-26 12:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just because you guys broke up doesn't mean you can't be friends, If you tries to change his way to get back together, do go out with him, he just trying to be nicer to go back out and get his way. I will work out for you mostly, just try and act like you are going to go back out, just don't go the full way, Hope this helps
2007-12-26 12:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by tommytunes113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read your question aloud to yourself. You are obviously a girl who isn't into a relationship with this guy. If you have this much doubt, then there's nothing there. Move on and stop turning this over and over in your mind. You're driving yourself crazy and wasting your time.
2007-12-26 12:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take responsibility for your feelings -only you can make you feel any way. choose to end things and get some counseling. have fun with friends and stay out of relationships for a while.
2007-12-26 12:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by KitKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it does take time and effort from both sides, but remember: Ex's are ex's for a reason.
2007-12-26 12:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by hotlilchick1127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh all men are annoying mine does my head in al time this month break doesnt mean neting its jus a timeout if u really love him u wud put up wit it his good points prob outway his bads
2007-12-26 12:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by irishcaroline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋