hallo everyone I'm 19 this year. I live in Melbourne Australia. i used to be a 'good boy' my only dream used to be getting good exam marks and getting compliments from teachers and parents. but as the years passed, one day things suddenly changed for me. things like this no longer make me feel content. now whenever I play games I keep thinking whats the point all that you've accomplished here would disappear once you turn the machine off.. and I've just finished high school with a very good final year exam score but I feel nothing. starting from this year I realised I feel good when I talk to females. so I've attempted to 'grow up' and become engaged like other guys, and I tried to talk to the girl that I had a crush upon.. and I've tried other girls.. they liked me as a friend but none of them wanted a boyfriend like me. finally I realised that I, being short and ugly, simply can't get a decent girlfriend. so I gave up. but what should I do now? I don't feel alive any more
2007-12-26 01:59:53 · 5 answers · asked by heinz_chan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't focus on "getting a girl" find something that you want to do for the rest of your life, maybe higher education,or a tech job. Or a hobby that somewhat consumes your attention. Do things that bring you satisfaction and you will meet receptive friends, and relationships will grow from that.
Just looking to meet a girl to become "more than just friends" almost amounts to stalking.
It's not a quick process,and sometimes things can become frustrating,but people that are doing things that give them pleasure are the most satisfied and easy-going.
G'day.
2007-12-26 02:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by PeeTee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to re-image a litte. The words YOU wrote were "I realised that I, being short and ugly, simply can't get a decent girlfriend!"
Well homie, if you see YOURSELF that way, how do you think women/girls will percieve you?
A woman will respond to a confident man. Be confident in yourself AND your abilities. If you are not confident, then just practice and telling yourself how good you are. Your walk and the way you carry yourself will say a lot without you saying a word.
As far as the ugly and short thing...work with what you have. Tweak your style a little if you need to. Certain styles can emphasize your body in a good way, i mean dang if you're just 19 hit the gym. A really toned short guy is a lot better than a flabby tall one. Build confidence in yourself, then the women will be flocking to you.
2007-12-26 10:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Shugsmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for other girls, or become very rich from your education and then you can laugh at the girls that didn't give you the time of day.
Or get a blow up doll
2007-12-26 10:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry bro I too am quite short and am aware of the height thing....but I don't care, there are a handful of women who would like to date a shorter guy......I also work very hard with my studies and still am....
Women look for:
goals
respect
honesty
loyalty
maturity
2007-12-26 10:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel sorry for you. When a guy is to of a goody goody girls like him but only as a brother- not a bf. sorry, but if ur a nice person maybe youll find some girl later when she realizes how nice you are.
2007-12-26 10:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋