something about it. Is she right? I say this is not always the case.
2007-12-26 01:45:40 · 15 answers · asked by So adorable 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok not at all shes dead wrong some guys will even wait years if your around that long. i have done it before. im in high school and have like a gurl sence i was a freshman we r both seniors now and i finally worked up enough corage to tell her how i feel and it is working out pretty well now. to break a guys shyness tho you may need to tell him or show him in some way that you are interested cause if he doesnt pick that up from the way you act tword him he may just be saving himself from the hurt of rejection.
2007-12-26 01:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by chunkx1200 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are right. In my experiences, I have 2 guys. 1 of them that made a move right away (didn't approach me though - went through my cousin) and the other mentioned it to the same cousin but didn't really make a move until almost 4 years later. We had became good friends within those 4 years, but he never mentioned it to me until later. So I would say it depends on the guy.
2007-12-26 09:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by 2sexy 2cute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not always the case. I'm a shy person and I take forever to make a move; I actually prefer for the girl to make the first move!
2007-12-26 09:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm insisting that your friend is completely wrong.
People, man and woman alike get nervous, shy, they also play games which takes time. So can they be making a move straight away, not always, in fact quite rarely.
2007-12-26 09:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right! It's not always the case. Some guys do not have initiative to do the first move. Good luck!
2007-12-26 09:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by skeptical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on that guy..sometimes he can be shy and not as aggressive as you would like. But waiting a month is a little too long to make a move.
2007-12-26 09:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by diva9047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men want to wait until you give them a sign or say something that is welcoming to them to let them know its time to make the move. Such as "Hey, when are we going to meet at Starbucks ? " Simple, not too forward, but to the point. It doesn't say, lets date or lets jump in the sack. Just to mutually meet. Some guys are so slow.......it is nerve-wracking.
2007-12-26 10:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by Toffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always the case- alot of it depends on his previous experiences with it, as well. Remember, good things come to those who wait:) So this can be a good thing!!
2007-12-26 10:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by blueyedgirl623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, i agreed with u! it s nt always the case...bt instead, most of the time, a person's moves so fast is a person that does not like you that much. no pressures... just playing & nothing to be lost but a man that really likes you, moves slowly but surely just to win you of course.
2007-12-26 10:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by flashback 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all man are different! this guy that's taking lets say ages to approach! he must be a clever, experienced n been through a lot. that probably makin him acting this way! trust me deep down he realy wants to, but theres somethin troubling him. n maybe he'z waitin for you!
but if you know he likes you, n u sure of it!
y dont you make the move!
it'll be for ur own good.
at least say a Hi to him.
2007-12-26 09:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋