ok so i am 17 and i live in Texas. i just graduated from high school this dec. and i have a job. i am engaged to this 29 year old. my parents are fine with his age, and they approve of us. i was living with him but my parents didnt know. and when i moved back home due to other issues, i asked my mom if i could move back out when i graduated to go live with him. so i was wondering if there is anyway i could move in with him, without getting him in any kind of trouble. and id it true that 6 months before you turn 18 you are considered legal? my 18th birthday is this coming april.
2007-12-26 00:04:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my parents said that we could be together or whatever, but she said no to me moving in with him b\c 1 we are not married and that goes against her morals..church thing..adn 2 she said that it would be illegal abd if she wante to she could throw him in jail.
2007-12-26 00:26:25 · update #1
well i am 17 guys not 18 so in texas i cant get married yet. but anyways when a mutual friend introduced us she didnt tell him my real age, and i already have a couple tattoos and a piercing or two so i guess he assumed that i was of age. and once we started dating and he found out my age he wanted to call it of, but we both already got in to deep. so thats how that happened, i dont want yall to think he id this old man tryin to just use me for sex, because its not like that, he is a kid at heart and he looks younger than what he is, and we are engaged...(got a fat diamond on my finger) planinng a wedding!!! its just that i want to move in w him already?
2007-12-26 05:08:31 · update #2
The age of consent in Texas is 17. So it is completely legal for you to move in with him.
2007-12-26 00:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly. What is your hurry. You're still young. Is he pressuring you? No offence to him, but you're not even out of school, I'm sure he can find a girl his own age. You need to live by yourself first before you move straight from your parents house and in with the boyfriend. You'll get a rude shock when dinners not on the table, your washing isn't done and you don't get pocket money. Have a long hard thing about it first.
2007-12-26 01:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by celfone71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not marry him? You love him enough to live in his house and do all the things that married couples do? What's the sense in not getting married? If he really loves you, he'd do the honorable thing and marry you. Otherwise, he's just getting a free maid and free sex on the side without having to commit to you. No guy is worth that, whether you're Miss Morality or not!
2007-12-26 01:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess I may be missing something in your question. You said you asked your Mom if you could move back out when you graduated and they approve of him.
So did she say NO? If they approve of him then whats the deal with sneaking?
If you are in Texas you are legal age. Maybe you dont really want to move in with him.
2007-12-26 00:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by sammy3256 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does an almost 30 year old guy want with a teenager? Oh, well....I mean besides the obvious. It shouldn't be fine with your parents. It isn't fine with the law! You are about to get yourself in one fine mess!!!!!
2007-12-26 00:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
States veri but as long as your 18 in most states then go for it.
2007-12-26 00:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by ath4554 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... age, ok has nothing ok to do with it, ok but Marriage ok does, ok ?
2007-12-26 00:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it
2007-12-26 02:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by panamarandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your hurry!!!????
2007-12-26 00:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by lise z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋