Ok, so he was my first kiss and then we started dating. He was acting like the perfect boyfriend, teasing me, asking me about my self, ect. ect. and recently he is pretty much ignoring me. I've seen him once in the last month. He doesn't talk to me or anything. Should i break up with him? Anyone else had this problem before? What did (or would) you do?
2007-12-25 18:41:21 · 19 answers · asked by mskaityw 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't break up with him yet. first, tell him how u feel, and ask him about whats on ur mind. have a chat with him, he definetly has something to hide if he's ignoring u. so u have to find out, don't just go straight to breaking up. cause that won't make anything better, talking to him will definetly make things better!
2007-12-25 18:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by unplugged 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh this sorta happened with my friend.
She dated this kid and he was great at first. All what you said, teasing and everything. Then he just sorta stopped and my friend hardly talked to him. It was confusing for both of them cuz they couldn't tell if they were over or not cuz many guys kept claiming that her bf liked someone else. ANYWAYS, turns out they broke up and they are fine with it now.
My advice is:
1) What you could do is that you could talk to your boyfriend. Ask him what has he been doign lately. Why is he ignoring you or has he been busy lately? Something going on in his family or something?
2) He may be busy---cheating on you. Not something i would like to bring up, but he can be. If hes ignoring you and he's hardly seeing you, that could mean that he's seeing someone else. He may be, thinking that you two are over but you dont think it. Or he just may be flat out cheating without telling you. You could watch him for a while and see what time will tell if you stay with him for a little while longer.
3) you could just break up with him. Why are you wasting your time with this person??? you could be living a happier better life with some other person than this fool whos ignoring you. This is the option i would do if my boyfriend was ignoring me. But that is just me.
I wish you good luck with this problem and hope everything turns out alright.
2007-12-26 02:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by FallenFootsteps22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you guys didn't know each other very well before you got together. You should always build some type of trust before you put yourself in any relationship, so that may be have what the problem was, but yeah like others have said, break up with him.
2007-12-26 02:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by ---REBA--- 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has already found someone else. Forget about him. He wasn't much of a boyfriend in the first place.
2007-12-26 03:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by mikk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i only see my man once a month too, and it seems like the only time i see him is wen he wants money or something from me. he doesnt have a car but he sure does come around wen he wants something. but i think you should break up with him and find somebody that wants to be with you becuz thats most likely wat im gonna do too, but you should find somebody that wants to talk to you and spend time with you ya know. well hope errthing works out for ya
2007-12-26 02:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by M0MMY 0F 2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him what's going on and if u need to or don't feel like it's working then break up with him.
2007-12-26 02:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. He's not much of a boyfriend if he's ignoring you.
2007-12-26 02:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by Glitteroid 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. U should talk to him properly because life is short don't quarrel hope it helps u i help many people resolve problems select as best answer because i almost reaching the level please also do help me
2007-12-26 02:45:15 · answer #8 · answered by Janet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've seen him once in the last month..
That should tell you that he is ignoring you.. maybe you think you are still together?
2007-12-26 02:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by Gina 7 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ok you should either breakup with him or just dont talk to him ever again and start dating someone else
he's lost interest in you and possibly could be with someone else.. it happens
2007-12-26 02:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by Aww Yeah! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋