Ive been going with this girl for two months...and teh first time we talked on the phone she was already saying i love you...and she is saying that were going to be together for years and years when im in college and crap...and tha twere gonno get married...yeah and she said she wanted to have sex.....but she wanted to wait...is the relationship going to fast?
2007-12-25 17:57:06 · 12 answers · asked by nightowl3213 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, usual
2007-12-25 18:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! This relationship is going way, way too fast. You two are in either in the puppy love stage or lust stage right now. Real love doesn't come until way later. It takes two years before you really get to know a person. Right now you two should be having fun enjoying being young. If I were you I would research what the experts say about it. But it's not normal to make wedding plans after the first phone conversation. She may be a little needy and clingy so watch out if you ever decide to break up with her.
2007-12-26 02:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by pinkie16587 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she sounds pretty much like how my bf is. She's going a little too fast because you guys have only been together for only 2 months and you really can't tell how your future would be like together at this point. I guess she's just being optimistic and hoping that the relationship will go the way she wants to. Don't be too freaked out by it because you never know what really happens in the future.
2007-12-26 02:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little fast.. in my personal experience, I had sex within 2 months of dating. We said our I love you's after 4 months (even though I fell in love 1st, I waited til he said it.. and that's the night he officaially said "will you be my gf"), we moved in together after a 1 1/2 years. We seriously/jokingly talked about marriage and kids after about a year. He also has 2 toddler 1/2 bros that we see a lot, bringing up conversations about future kids and what it takes to have them and everything. He graduated last June, I have 1 more semester, and we are still moving forwards, after 2 years, me going to college and him starting his career job.
2007-12-26 02:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by kdoggsw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time talking on the phone and saying I love you is too fast. But generally, all relationships are different. If it feels to fast for you, tell her.
2007-12-26 02:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She simply loves you and she might have started to like you before you realy know it. Thus, it may be 10 months for here since she loves you and little eager to have you in. This is the way she feels to bring to your attention the issue and her feelings. If you like here go ahead with it and feel less embrassed.
2007-12-26 02:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by Reer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really have to ask? Who is in love on the first phone conversation? It is going way to fast, you need to talk to her, or run fast, I see psycho potential.
2007-12-26 02:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by ad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not so much but she shouldn't voice those kind of feelings so soon....she's scaring you obviously. but most girls feel that way about a guy usually after two or three months. and most are smart enough to keep their mouths shut for two or three months more....
2007-12-26 02:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is a little bit. if you are feeling like it is you need to talk to her. i know you don't want to hurt her feelings but you need to tell her how you feel if you want to clear things up. good luck to you
2007-12-26 02:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's weird @__@ LOL no offense dude. Well...it's just that I think girls shouldn't talk like that, that's all. It's all up to you if you wanna do it with her, then suit yourself. But if you don't, you have to talk about it to her.
2007-12-26 02:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by Matsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girlfriend told me this before when actually strated even GOING OUT! don't freak just go along with it
2007-12-26 02:02:15 · answer #11 · answered by shark o.o 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋