To make a long story short; psycho girlfriend makes herself pregnant by grabbing my guys out of a used condom in the trash.
She's saying she's pregnant now and will file for child support as soon as the baby is born.
Options? Advice? -- or is it an open and shut case?
2007-12-25 17:11:26 · 21 answers · asked by ineedhelp 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Shes full of it. You're not the first that has been told something like that. I wouldnt worry.
2007-12-25 17:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Bud 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
shes lying to make you come back. Women have been telling this lie since the beginning of time. The sperm cant survive inside the condom no more than 3 seconds. The spermicide killed your little swimmers as soon as they got in there. I think you should have her take a pregnancy test while you are in the bathroom to confirm that shes pregnant and if she is (which I highly doubt) then make sure you get a paternity test!!
2007-12-26 04:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, if she isn't already, make her your EX girlfriend. No body needs crazy like that in their life.
Secondly, it is *nearly* impossible to get pregnant that way-so I wouldn't believe her for a second. I would FIRST get a good lawyer and then SECOND demand a paternity test once the baby is born. Once you get a paternity test you can talk to your lawyer about the best options in your situation.
Don't speak to her **at all** until you have a DNA test that proves the baby is yours. Don't call, don't write, don't myspace, don't accept any calls/letters/emails and if she tries to see you in person just walk away without talking to her...if you keep up contact with her you'll just stir up the crazy pot and she'll f*% around with you as much as she can get away with.
2007-12-26 01:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by lovelymrsm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a psycho!! Yes, she could actually get pregnant this way believe it or not. This happened to a friend of mine and he went through hell trying to prove what this twisted woman did. In the end he prevailed. Unlike you, this woman wasn't his girlfriend, just some twisted nut out to get his money. She retrieved his used condom from his hotel room where she work. She worked in housekeeping and he's a big name celebrity. Therefore she committed a disgusting act in order to trap him. SICK!!!!!!!!!
Get a good lawyer. You may have a harder time proving what she did because she was indeed someone you had a sexual relationship with. Good Luck!
2007-12-26 02:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Open and Shut if you have always had protected sex than you have little to worry about. Once your "guys" hit air they die and will not be of any use to her. If she in fact did that she is one crazy woman and I would get away as fast as your legs can take you. If she is preg. after that baby comes make sure to get a paternity test since who knows who else she is doing this to. Good luck
2007-12-27 04:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by H mom of 3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Demand a DNA test when the child is born to prove it's yours. Sounds like the woman is definitely psycho.
2007-12-26 02:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes been watching the tv sitcom "The Game" a girl on there tryed to do that to a football player and she was going to use a turkey baster to get it out. hilarious just plain out right hilarious. this is why you should wait tll marriage to bang.
you should get a lawyer , she may be pregnant from results of a broken condom ya'll used. but nothing is impossible
this is hilarious though i just cant stop laughing.
2007-12-26 02:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by tahsui876 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly not all condoms contain spermicide but it is still unlikely she is pregnant by used sperm in a condom, i would contact a lawyer and go from there.
Perhaps a lawyer could get a court order to perform an amniocentesis which can determine if the child is yours. Just talk to a lawyer!
2007-12-26 01:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by Wishmaster 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would go for DNa and get her to prove the child is yours and not just using you as her excuse to getting pregnant by somebody else. Good Luck.
2007-12-26 01:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's gross..she took it out of the trash ?
she must be desperate for attention.
what she did would not get her pregnant..just makes her weird.
if she is pregnant though..you should get a DNA test..because although she can not get pregnant from what she did..maybe you got her pregnant before this happened..or someone else..so get a DNA test when the baby is born..IF there is a baby.
2007-12-26 02:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get a DNA test because most condoms have a chemical that will kill most of the sperm in the condom. So if she used the sperm that was in it, it would be kinda hard to get it to work, but it might be posssible though.
2007-12-26 01:15:29 · answer #11 · answered by bndmn2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋