I'm a junior football player. I play offensive line, so I'm kinda big, but I lift in the offseason, so it's not all fat. My leg strength is considered above average and I'm probably Top 10 in the school when it comes to leg strength. But my bench is considered average. So I have a killer lower body (so I'm told) but an average upper body (what girls notice more).
She's a sophomore cheerleader, and a good friend of my good friend's girlfriend. I've never seen her at school before, but my good friend was talking about her being single (the team tries to get me a gf now and then). I saw her pic on Facebook (apparently we're friends) and I was blown away.
But as I said, I've never seen her before at school. I don't know any of her classes or where her locker is or anything like that.
So how should I try to get to know her? In person? On Facebook? How? What do I say?
I only have one chance for a good first impression, so I NEED to make it memorable.
2007-12-25 17:05:04 · 5 answers · asked by DaClint 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Here is a pic of her:
http://i201.photobucket.com/albums/aa6/LifeWithFriends123/n501748070_113859_3270.jpg
And this is me:
http://i201.photobucket.com/albums/aa6/LifeWithFriends123/ClintFootball3.jpg
2007-12-25 17:05:38 · update #1
Well, does she on her fb have her aol s/n or msn name?..so, you can chat with her through instant messenger?..You could always do that, * but yeah, try and get to know her through face book, thats what I did when I was wanting to get to know my acquaintance's brother, he accepted my friendship and I messaged him. He also had a s/n but I was too shy to talk to him instant, so when he graduated college I sent him a message to "break the ice." After you get to know her through face book, why don't you ask your guy friend to set up a group date?...and have it be her, you good friend's girl and yourself?...you guys could hang out and have fun. I'm sure you could also get more information via your good friend, as he's girl is her friend. Eventually, when you feel comfortable, ask her what classes she's taking to see if you can relate or help her out,and eventually ask her what period she has lunch and visit her, randomly and just say 'oh hey, we finally meet' and ask about her day..go with the flow. Good luck. You guys could be cute together, the jock with the cheerleader-typical* high school love.
2007-12-25 17:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm concerned that you are so concerned with how you look and how she looks. At this point you have no idea whether you will be compatible personality-wise with this person. And no matter how she looks, if you don't get along with her personality, you won't be a good match.
In fact, this reminds me of some girls that I know who used to be roommates. One of the roommates was very attractive and many guys would ask her out without getting to know her personality first. It turns out that she has a unique personality and doesn't get along with many people. Her roommates knew this and whenever they see a guy ask her out without really getting to know her first, they decided that the guy was superficial, and they didn't want to go out with him either.
If you are interested in getting to know the girl, then get to know her. You can talk to her at school or something. But I really hope you won't make the mistake of believing that a person's looks is all that's important. You might find that you don't really get along with this attractive girl, and that a girl who you don't consider an instant knockout is more interesting to you.
2007-12-26 08:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you have dissimilar self assurance, it rather would not remember what you're saying. merely walk as much as her and say, "hi, how are you?" with a grin. tell her you have considered her around and there is not any way you need to no longer introduce your self. Ask her what her call is, and then tell her yours. supply her a handshake, yet be sure it rather is company. to no longer tight the two. sufficient to appreciate your specific of your self. Ask her if she has any plans for dinner, or ask her if she has any sought after places around that she loves to consume. Ask her if she'd desire to flow with you, and which you're exciting in getting to appreciate extra approximately her. From there it rather is all you.
2016-12-18 08:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she has a nice load of teeth, but don't you think you would be happier finding someone with a great personality rather than basing your affections on a single picture, for all you know you may be wasting your hopes on a complete cow.
2007-12-25 17:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Monstera Deliciosa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start talking to her on facebook,
start mutual, asking things like, "How's cheerleadin goin"
Then right under say, "I am totally footballing these days :)"
Hmmm well go smooth. Smoothness is gold.
2007-12-25 17:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by Orange Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋