he cheated on her,the girl got pregnate,baby was born,torn apart my family,life seems like its going down the drain....
2007-12-25 16:24:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hi...
I'm not sure why this happened, but i'm sorry for your pain.
Please remember it's not the girl's fault, nor the new baby's... YOUR father made the choice to cheat... no one forced him.
Your parents obviously had marital problems and they need to work things out.
Meanwhile, it's not your fault, hon... don't take on the burden of adult problems and try not to "take sides"... just focus on your responsibilities, do things with friends and keep busy with projects and other things you like to do.
I sure hope things work out.. take care of YOU...
2007-12-25 16:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you're going through. There's no explanation as to why your dad did what he did. There's no room to call your dad a pig or other names like that because we don't know the whole story so all who says your dad is a jerk or other names is sadly mistaken. Your mom and your dad just had their differences and he no longer felt like the person that he was when they first met. Your dad had different views in life which didn't agree with your mom. He found another person that was compatible in his current life style. Even though he may no longer be there...He's still your dad. Just treat him with the respect that he still deserves since he is your dad.
2007-12-26 00:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by Flying High 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear that. Men suck at ending their exsisting relationships. i dont understand what is so hard about breaking up with some one who you are not in love with any more. if a man wants to be with another woman they should break up w/ their wife or gf and then go on about their lives instead of cheating on that person and complicating things. i hope things get better for you.
2007-12-26 00:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by yan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry about that.....you know life seems to give us trials...just P-U-S-H OR Pray Until Something Happens...you should with your parents and tell themhow youreally feelabout it...maybe they'll understand and give themselves another chance...it's not just because they broke upthey dont have love for each other...and your fathers child...to another woman...just accept it...dont get angry with it...after-all its innocent...only its parents commited the sin...youcan adopt the baby...and your parents canreconcile..that is if they want to give each other another chance...yousee...we are not perfect so we are commited to do sins...and that is just what your father did...but if god can forgive...why cant we...so just forgiveand forget and PUSH....trust me....it'll pass away....
2007-12-26 00:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by vandian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for the things you are going through.No one on here can really give you a truthful answer to your question.I think you need to talk to your dad about why he did what he did.
2007-12-26 00:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Teresa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry, maybe your dad broke up with your mom because he feels guilty or ashamed but i'm not really sure
2007-12-26 00:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just the way things work somtimes same thing happend to me (no baby involed) but you get the point it really blows but dont let it get you down to much than you get real depressed and thats not good
2007-12-26 00:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by isaac r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's rough. I'm really sorry. Just remember it is not your fault. Everything will be alright.
2007-12-26 00:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I'm sorry.
2007-12-26 00:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋