She called to tell him she was planning to come pick it up tommorow! i havent even had a chance to get my van yet to accomadate for our growing family. i am so angry i want to scream and am having serious doubts about whether i realy want to give my car to my mother in law......regaurdless of whether i get my van or not! what if i dont get a van for a while how will i get to my doctor appointments to check on our unborn son? am just being selfish or do i have a right to be upset?
2007-12-25 15:51:37 · 10 answers · asked by Thumbs down me now 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
excuse me but what makes you think i have done anything behind his back?!?!?!? i have never done anything with out his knoweledge including post questions here! yes he has seen my questions and no you have no right to make assumptions!
2007-12-25 16:05:51 · update #1
your husband should talk about his intentions before making a major decission like that. did you say it was ok to give your car but didnt decide on a specific time? either way he should have talked to you before deciding on that! if that was me in your shoes i would be pissed off!! you have every right to call your mother in law back and tell her that she will have to wait!! im sorry if i came of as rude but im only speaking my mind
2007-12-25 16:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by +FaBiAn+ 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is your name on the title?
If so, is it written: John and Mary Doe?
"And", give you 50% ownership of the car and he will need your signature to transfer the title into his moms name.
Or is it : John or Mary Doe?
This allows him to do anything he likes with the car without your consent.
I made that mistake in the 1st marriage.
But not in the 2nd marriage.
Everything we buy, that requires a title, deed or proof of ownership, is listed with that very important "and"!!!
Keep that in mind, when you get the van!
2007-12-26 00:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by braves squaw 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just Abbadon to get you a new car. Abby would give you a car. Give the "thing" you got now to your mother-in-law and let Abby get you a car. Love you. I'm in Germany visiting my mama. Still Love you. Mwhahaha! ~hugs like crazy person~
2007-12-26 14:21:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would explain to your husband about that. After you talked with him and explained to him what you feel I would have him call his mother and tell her that no she can not come to pick up the car tommorrow. He should have dicussed it with you before making any arangements. Then you can have the car and keep it for a while if you chose to do so.
2007-12-26 00:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First you give your husband hell about this behind your back, that is, unless he is getting you a van right now. You tell him exactly what you just wrote here....how you need transportation to get to your doctor appointments. You tell him to tell his mother he realizes he should not have offered her your car without discussing it with you. Does he do things like this often?
2007-12-26 00:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by duffie_1999 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
relax ear your pregnant, maybe he is doing this so u ca get the van also ??
maybe its time 4 a heart 2 heart hmm. Good Luck LP :)
2007-12-26 02:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by Law Professor 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I TOTALLY know how you feel. You do have a right to be upset and you need to have dh call and tell MIL that she isn't getting the car yet because till you have another vehicle to drive you need that car.
2007-12-26 00:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by lovemy2boys&girl 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Simple solution to reset priorities. Tell your hubby that each day he takes away your ride, you take a month away from his "ride."
2007-12-26 00:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by DJE 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Why is this question in parenting & pregnancy? their is probably a car section somewhere.
2007-12-26 00:10:23 · answer #9 · answered by onyx1 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
if it's in your name...........don't sign anything...............
if he gives it to he.......,rent a car till you get the van,,,,,,,,,,,,,,a lesson will be learned by someone.............
2007-12-26 00:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by richard t 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋