Okay. I am at the age when you have urges. No, not sex urges, other urges. I want to have a boyfriend that will hold me and kiss me all the time. I have urges to make out *blush* with my crushes and stuff like that. Well I am worried that I might date this crush I have and then start making our or something(hes the kind of guy that woudl make out and go that far) but I don't want to. I want my first big kiss to be with a boyfriend that I know will be with me for a while and not a month or somthing like that...so what do I do?
2007-12-25 15:30:34 · 11 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm wondering what age this is. I'm not sure it will really matter what person you have your first kiss with. It will be memorable anyway. Mine was on the stairs at middle school while I was taking the attendance slip to the office. The girl was going steady with one of the tough guys in school, and she was HOT. Made me feel like I was getting something over on the tough dude. That was 24 years ago and I can still remember the day like it was yesterday.
If you want to kiss a guy and the moments right, well then there you go. If you don't want to then don't.
2007-12-25 15:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by dlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a father of 5 daughters I would remind you of a saying that was old when I was young. There are too many fish in the sea to keep the first one just to say "I caught one". Shop around for someone that you can be friends with for the long term. Don't be caught in the "I got one first" trap. And don't settle for any guy that you don't think is "The Best".
Oh, and one more little thing, talk to your dad about your choice because he will see your pick when you are not around and he may pick up on trouble before you.
I wish my oldest had listened because she married a guy that I warned her about and ended up in a very messy divorce.
2007-12-25 15:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by James E Lewis AKA choteau 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are normal urges, but I think you know that..
Go slow and do not do anything until you are ready, explain that to him and if he cannot abide by that, if you get a bad feeling, walk.
Guys need to learn that girls usually see these things as very important, whereas some guys (not all) don't see the importance in 'making out', when it truly is a level of intimacy thats overlooked.
Good luck
2007-12-25 15:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by HL2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then date around until you find the guy you would want to have your first kiss with. you can date someone and in the beginning just tell them you're not ready to kiss yet. resist the urge if your first kiss is really that important to you
2007-12-25 15:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by carrotco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to make sure that your first kiss comes from someone you will be with long term, is to be with them a long time before you kiss them. And that really doesn't make much sense does it? Because it would be hard to get a really long term relationship going without kissing.
2007-12-25 15:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 12:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by finnen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get with this boy. find someone else that is on you're level. you may think that's hard to do but believe me, it's not. if you can't find someone then maybe you're just not ready enough. you never know, maybe the person that you should be with is right infront of you!
2007-12-25 15:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just shop around, try to find a good guy, someone who shares the same interests as you.
2007-12-25 15:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you know that you want it to go that far and you only just wanna kiss him tell him that and if he cant respect that then maybe you dont need to pursue a relationship wit him
2007-12-25 15:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me 2
and what you should do? find where i live and we can talk
2007-12-25 15:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋