Danny is this guy i know from when i was younger. He is 22, and i am 18 (almost 19) now, and at a get together, we hung out. After about 5 hours of him flirting with me, he gave me his number and asked me to call him. Our parents both gave us money to shop for clothes, so he wanted to shop with me at the mall. Even though I have known him for a long time, i don't know him well. All i know is he is HOOOOT, basically from what i can tell, amazing, but he has had many many girlfriends. Actually a month ago his ex left him for another guy which was hard for him. If he likes me or if there is more to this. You guys know about as much as i do, i don't know if i trust him or not. He is the only guy ever to make me feel nervous. Weird. Should i call him and go shopping? Or what do you suggest? I kinda want to get to know him better....I don't know what to do!
Thank you for your answers!!
Merry Christmas btw!
2007-12-25 15:29:44 · 27 answers · asked by CC 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just thought i would add the reason lots of girlfriends scare me is because they were all sort of slutty, and I am obviously not like that. He knows that. I don't know why he would show interest in me.
2007-12-25 15:38:00 · update #1
sure. who cares how many girlfriends he has had. does that really bother you? I imagine youve had a few boyfriends...youre not gonna marry the guy so yeah, go shopping and have fun. then when you get fat and lazy in 10 years THEN you can get married.
2007-12-25 15:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't take him too seriously for now. You both are so young (ain't it nice? I envy you! LOL) . Sounds like he wants to have a good time, since he was recently dumped. How does he react to that? a month ago isn't that long ago after all. Well I think going to the mall is a great opportunity for you both to know each other better, that's what you want after all, right? It's better to know where you are stepping on first. Just hang out as friends first to see what will happen in the future, is my suggestion.
2007-12-25 15:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, there will be a lot of guys that will make you nervous, he is just the beginning of a long road. Also having a lot of gf ... Try to look at the bright side...Think it this way, probably he hasn't found the one that he is looking for...Go with him shopping, it's not a date, so don't worry. Look how he acts, what he tells you, and if you like what you see/hear, give it a try. If you start, later on, that he is playing you, just don't give up. There are a lot of guys there that you will meet and you will like, better probably than this one.
2007-12-25 15:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by ^Blue Rose^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should at least give the guy a chance! Call him and go shopping! Then you don't have to wonder about the "what ifs". Plus, you can get to know him a little better and find out if he is someone you would like to be with or not. Go for it girl! =)
2007-12-25 15:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by Debi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should totally call him and go shopping together. You want to get to know him, and what better way than spending the day together at the mall. Go for it! Good luck!
2007-12-25 15:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by K-O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. Keep contacts with your peps, stay alert, and go with your heart....After all, a date cant hurt .And be aware guys that had many girlfriends are alot faster so rememberto be careful and prepared. If something doesnt seem right, get away from the situation. Best of luck
maybe he'll be the one..
2007-12-25 15:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all!!! Merry Christmas. Danny is 22 years of age giving you his number to call don't call him...
Reason one I was a 22 year old guy hitting bars....Know your 18 and check on him,,,Plus play hard to get wait until he ask you for your number...otherwise he will take it as a inventation for sex.... Date under 21 until you of age is safer...unless they ask you out!!!
2007-12-25 15:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by Tim M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont go, He likes to make friends with girls and when he looses interst he looses the girls as well , why do you want to be next in his girl list.....
I cannot understand your culture..
cant you just meet the boy in front of the parents and decide whether you want to marry or not.... and then get married.... Why do you people have to roam about everywhere...... obviously unwanted things will be said and done and humans dont have so much control over the future.... so why do you do things with people whom you have not established any relationship with........
And then blame this and that..
The best way is to keep safe distance.....
2007-12-26 21:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by jafar sheikh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ie, remember that there's no problem going out shopping... so how will you know him better? in your dream? Maybe you get my point. Grab always the opportunity its only in your mind if you set it BAD. Ok Good Luck my friend.
2007-12-25 17:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by geear ( 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE! go shopping with him. get to know him better.
so what if he's "HOOOOT", see if he acts like a mature 22 year old. see if he's funny, see if he's smart. looks matter not, personality is key.
i say GO FOR IT! i would.
2007-12-25 15:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by jae bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋