why does my gf not have sex anymore? we use to have sex like all the time then she just stopped its been 1 1/2 years that weve been going out and the past two months she wont have sex anymore like i cant even touch her boob and shes like omg stop i dont understand why......... and she says shes not cheating on me but i cant help it she use to be so horny can it just be natural? 3 motnhs no sex or is she doing something behind my back.... she constanly hides to me shes going to her bosses house shes 18 hes 35 but he has 3 kids and his gf lives with him but why does she hide it then i constanly think shes cheating on me with her ******* boss am i wrong to think this? i dont want to assume even though i kinda am she says she loves me and everything and when i do say something she cries and says that she loves me too much to cheat on me i dont understand any ideas?
2007-12-25 15:24:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well maybe she doesn't find you as appealing anymore, buy her a gift, take her out to dinner, or try something she really wants to do. you should always have trust in your woman and if it turns out shes cheating on you in the end you no you've done your part in having a healthy relationship and move on. (present-jewelry, movie, something she likes to do) [nothing that involves sex]
2007-12-25 15:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by Corwin C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, maybe she's not cheating on you, but something has changed. You need to ask her why she's not having sex with you anymore. Was she lying before when she said she was horny? You need to talk to her and find out what's going on. Frankly, if it was me, I'd tell her to be honest with me, even if it's going to hurt. Then, if she still says nothing is wrong, then tell her to call you when she's ready to have sex again. You'll get your answer that way.
2007-12-25 15:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she probably is cheating, maybe with the older boss, it doesn't seem natural for an 18 year old girl to not wanna be haviing sex.
2007-12-25 15:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the right to assume, but she may have lost interest in you she is still young and she's probably trying to figure out whats the best way to do things......but that boss thing is kinda weird it isnt natural to visit ur boss thats 35....at all...even at her age
2007-12-25 15:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by ¿Curious? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, don't be embarrassed. ask her why she doesn't want to have sex, not if she is cheating bc she'll feel like you are attacking her. do you think she's cheating? be completely honest with yourself. i've personally learned that if you get that feeling/vibe it's usually true.
2007-12-25 15:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by smile =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prude.
2007-12-25 15:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever watched that dane cook episode about cheating? you need to. are you sure your not?
2007-12-25 15:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN, don't walk away from this defective relationship.
Good luck!
2007-12-25 15:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by jasper addleton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she's not your girlfriend. She's your friend and doesn't want to mess around with you.
2007-12-25 15:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
def. tell her this bothers you and you think she's doing something behind your back. my guess is that she is
2007-12-25 15:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋