Ok I'm 15 and there is this dude that I go to school with. Recently he told me on aim that he likes me and I told him that I liked him back also. After that we talked on aim like 2 or 3 times and not at school b/c its during winter break. The last time we talked on aim he gave me his number and he said "you should call me" but it was 1 something at night so I didn't call him. After that time we haven't really talked on aim b/c he never signs on anymore. And I know that he's on the computer b/c I see him on myspace everyday but we don't talk on there. What happened? Did I do something wrong? What should I do now? SORRY FOR THE LONG DETAILS ^^
2007-12-25 15:17:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do I do when I call him and he tells me that he's busy or something like that ?
2007-12-25 15:22:52 · update #1
1st
This guy gave you his number so he is interested in you and wants to get to know more about you
2nd
He is probaly wondering why you didn't call him and worrying about as much as you are probaly MORE, your probaly saying " Then why didn't he talk to me on Myspace."
most likely because he told you to call him if he get on there and talks to you he's probaly seeming likes he a stalker in his own eyes.
3rd
Don't worry .. CALL HIM! If he didn't want you to call or wasn't interested you would not have a number to call him . He took the time out to talk to you before. I'm sure he will be glad you called and you will be too self assured that nothings wrong .
Good Luck
Go get em tiger
Brandon
2007-12-25 15:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Brandon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, he should call YOU.
But anyways, he's probably just embarrassed that you he put himself out there like that with you and that he hasn't yet got any feedback from you. Basically, his ego is hurt from you not calling is all. He feels dumb. He thinks you don't like him since he hasn't heard from you yet.
I would say, give him your number over the computer. But at your stage, guys could be funny and childish. If you give him your number over the computer, he'll probably wait a long time to call you just to get back at you. And then, you'll really be wondering what he's thinking and why hasn't he called....
..Save yourself the drama and just call him I guess...Make up some silly excuse as to why you took so long...Then let him do all the calling from there...at least the 3 next phone calls.
If he doesn't pick up, don't take it personal...He probably just doesn't recognize the number. But DO leave a message if he doesn't pick up. Just say who you are and tell him things have been kinda hectic with the holidays going on but you wanted to make sure you touched basis with him before the school semester started again. Leave your number.
But remember, if he doesn't call right away, its just because he doesn't wanna seem too into you. He won't want to seem more into you than you are into him, so he may wait equal time to return your call.
2007-12-25 15:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k well if he told you recently then he probably still likes you. you should just call him and ask to hang out with a bunch of other people so its not like awkward. if you share the same group of friends, get a bunch of friends to go to a movie. i've had this issue before...just wait it out. if you don't wanna call him, send him a myspace message asking him to hang out or something. also, if he's not home, maybe he's at a computer that doesn't have AIM so he can't sign on. first thing, don't worry too much because when you worry it ruins fun. just be happy that he likes you and wait it out. vacation will be over soon and you'll get to hang out with him if you don't now. hope this helps! :)
2007-12-25 15:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by em.rach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think the reason he's not on aim is so you can call him. if he was over u he would have just signed on aim and ignored you or blocked you,. but it seems to me that he's waiting for you to make the next move. if I was you I would comment his myspace picture or something like that or if you dont want to do that you can just comment him on myspace its ok if you guys dont talk on myspace just be like I never see you on anymore trust me I think he's waiting for you to make the first move :] good luck & merry chrismas :]
2007-12-25 15:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by ;D me myself and i ;D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he really wants you to call him and him not going on aim, he probably thinks that will give you another reason for your call
2007-12-25 15:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by ^Blue Rose^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. Never try to guess what another person is thinking, you'll always get it wrong. The only way to be sure is to talk to him. Heed this advice, you'll need it throughout your life.
2007-12-25 15:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him email him do something he may for some odd reason think ur not interested
so i say talk to the guy at this point u dont have much to lose
2007-12-25 15:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol on account which you pay attention to them and prepare them interest. Your unquestionably getting the worst sort of female chatting with you, needy and interest in seek of. Do what I do and tell them to develop up and quit complaining approximately existence whilst there are ravenous human beings everywhere. there is extra to existence than drama. i do no longer pay attention to it and not in any respect will. I unquestionably hate actuality television.
2016-11-25 00:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably just call him. What do you got to lose?
2007-12-25 15:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um it's not that he doesn't want to talk to you he wants to talk to you in person and he wants to get to know the real you and hear your voice, it's weird I know but he's waiting for you to call him.
2007-12-25 15:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by live,love,forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋