Please don't get offended.
I was just wondering, is it haram/sinful to use pornography for "sexual aid?"
2007-12-25 14:29:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Ramadan
I'm not married, but I looked at a few different sites and they all said it's haram.
http://www.soundvision.com/Info/life/porn/isporn.asp
2007-12-25 15:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 15⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons that make pornography haram, and I think all of them have been expressed here. The "performers" comitting zina and publicizing their relationships, the viewers comitting zina by the eyes, etc.
If you didn't realize it before, and I'm sorry for the nature of this, "toys" are allowed, and there is only one position you are forbidden, but everything else is up for the taking. If you explore your sexuality with your spouse in these manners, well not only will you have a hightened sex life, but you'll be doing it in a more appropriate manner that won't get you in trouble later on.
2007-12-26 01:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by hayaa_bi_taqwa 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To me the point is, what is wrong in the relationship that you would need a sexual aid? It would go deeper then just being sexually aroused. These ideas that humans need sexual aids to mate are really crazy and put in the head by western influence or shaytan.
What I mean to say is that the relationship is in a crisis. They should seek the help of a marriage counselor.
If the husband or wife needs to see other people to become excited to have sex with one another it is like behaving as if they are animals. With no feelings for one another but just about sex and as if they would be having sex with the people in the film.
Pornography leads to many bad things. It is adultery of the eyes. Better to cut the eyes out then to sin.
These are just my thoughts and please do not take it personally I am speaking broadly.
2007-12-26 00:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by je 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as sexual aid :P
i mean, if u dont have enough the sexual exitment, then i guess ur scrwed till u do, or, just take Viagra..
And just wait like a LOOOOOONG time till u have sex, then ull feel that urge to go and bang..
And porno is SOOO not allowed in Islam, so .. no.. no prono!!
And plus, if you dont know, and there is no proof..
then better if u dont, because, well u dont know.. so better stay away from it.. but its most likely no..
2007-12-25 22:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm Married and this is a really sensitive topic for ones that may not get the sertain affection they need from there husbands.
I have heard it is a debatatble topic, some say its haram but some say if the intetention is to not to commit other bad acts such as Adultry then its not but that is what I've heard so Im not sure.
2007-12-25 15:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by FeshFash 6 · 5⤊ 3⤋
It amazes me the few people who said it is okay. The logic of its
being forbiden is so clear that I do not know why some even contemplate.
My question to you is: is it lawful what those people are doing for a living? is it lawful for them to stand naked infront of the camera? Is it lawful for any woman to be intimate with a man who is not her husband?
The answer in all these cases is no.
How then is it lawful to watch those people?
2007-12-25 23:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by swd 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It's not allowed in Islam to tell or show people about sex activity, and it's not allowed to show part of body that should be covered.
If we use the product of those actions (pornography) that means we support people who does something forbidden in Islam.
I don't think it's ok
2007-12-25 16:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by marhama 6 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Pornography is prohibited since it exhibits sexual organs of others. Looking at sexual looking of others except that of wife/husband is prohibited. Even, looking at the sexual organs of the husband/wife is karahat (better to avoid) according to Sharia (Islamic jurisprudence)".
2007-12-25 15:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by Basheer 6 · 9⤊ 0⤋
i was marrie and i personally feel that it is not as black and white as that
i agree with ruqis answer thoughu
in some extreme cases it may be ok
i dont know if the wife is ok with it shouold it then be a problem?if they know that this is just being used for sexual arousal amongst them should it be a sin?as long as they know their INTENTIONS are not for any other purpose bt fro theri own enjoyment between each other is it ok/
i dont know i hope i havent offended anyone on htis matter but i feelit cant be a straight yes or no
may allah guide us to the right and keep us away from what is wrong
2007-12-25 19:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by pretty flower 5 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Haram. You can't look at other people naked besides your husband or wife.
2007-12-25 22:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by ~~∞§arah T∞©~~ 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋