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I have a friend and my first impression of him was that he was really nice. I then realized that he was sometimes a little irritable and annoying. A few years later he became very irritable and annoying, but only on some days. He then told me he had depression. Is that why he became irritable and annoying? I am know still friends with him but can't stop thinking about that. Sometimes I am not sure if I still want to be friends with him. Also, I feel that If If be irritable and annoying and I know I am not and tell them that I have a kind of obssessional anxiety disorder, they will still be friends with me. But I know I am not irritable and annoying and don't want to be but keep worrying about if I want to stay friends with this person. I don't know what part of him is just the depression and what is just his personality and what part of me is my anxiety when I react with people and what is just my personality.

2007-12-25 14:18:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

19 answers

Just be yourself

2007-12-25 14:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Accept who he is. If he didn't mean to annoy you and irritate you, try to understand him because he don't know that you're irritated and annoyed. Be there for him. You told us that he was depressed, right? Maybe it was part of his personality. The best advised I can give you is that. Accept him for who he is. Don't you think it's being unfair to him? Don't you think it was back fighting? What if he has a big problem and he don't know what to do? Just be there for him always. That's what friends mean. Helping each other.

2007-12-25 15:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by fromcradletocoffin13 2 · 0 0

Honestly stay friends with him he might need you to be there for him, Depression can affect everyone differently and maybe him getting annoying and irritable his is form of depression or maybe he tries to hide his depression by being annoying and irritable, some days ask him if he's okay or if he needs to talk it could just make a difference.

2007-12-25 14:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by appleeater395 3 · 1 0

You know what ,, your not alone , and what makes you think you have to stay friends with this person ???
If you need help just go to a clinic and they have medication for people that will help them ,, or you , I have been on meds for my depression and it works ,, DON;T worry so much ,,
Just go about your life and be kind to others that have problems ,, But that doe's not mean you have to put up with them all the time,, Stay away from people that bring you down ,,, First be happy your self,, and be more understanding on whats going on in YOUR life ,,,,

2007-12-25 14:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by luv them horse's 6 · 0 0

that's kinda harsh dint you think? someone who obviously needs you. doesn't know that they cant depend on you. You should have a back bone and be their for this person. If you are really a true friend then you will look past the fact that this person SUFFERS from depression. If your not a true friend then you'll drop this person like a hot potato. Do what you want but in my personal opinion you stay and be a rock for this friend to lean on when they need you. that's what friends are for

2007-12-25 14:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

How do you know you're not annoying? You are in this post.

But seriously, um, most people can be annoying sometimes. If this person bugs you a LOT, you don't have to be his best friend. You have an obligation to be somewhat kind and cordial, but that's the extent.

And stop worrying. I know you're an anxious person or whatever, but seriously, try to recognize that this is extensive. And there's no reason to be so neurotic.

2007-12-25 14:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by Coffin33 2 · 0 2

I get a little depressed once in awhile and it sure would be nice if I had a true friend that would tell me how it is when I'm getting that way instead of caring on like a babbling fool it would be great if I got in one of my moods and my friend said to me shut up your getting on my freaking nerves ...then I would think about what I'm doing and then tell him his a jerk and walk away loving them for putting me in my place when I'm out in space..bottom line feel it say it

2007-12-25 14:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by saveitok 6 · 1 0

Whoa! Just relax. You do not have to tolerate miserable behaviour in anyone, whether or not they are depressed. He should be learning how to cope and manage his behaviour. When you don't like his behaviour, be upfront and tell him. Let him deal with it ... don't you suffer through it.

You don't have to psycho-analyse every step of the way. Just be yourself. Like you said, you are not irritable or annoying. Don't let overworrying change your good nature.

2007-12-25 14:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0 0

in case you like this guy and you have an pastime into seeing the place the relationship can circulate, then I say choose for it. do no longer circulate to his section or something like that. yet be in contact. communicate plenty on the telephone and circulate to him. in simple terms in case, be careful besides. you may get close to to his babies, yet do no longer forget that if by twist of destiny this relationship would not artwork that there are babies in contact. the babies lost one mom and now they're seeing yet another mom parent. in simple terms be sure that it is what you the two prefer and you the two ought to communicate the babies and what's is which you're the two searching for. i'm sorry which you have problems with conceiving, yet do no longer provide up, have faith. in simple terms be sure you're taking a while. do no longer rush into something. good success!

2016-11-25 00:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

A friend is a friend even with irritable and annoying .
Does your friend have a therapist. Are you the only one he shares with.
How about just listening and accept him for who he is?
you don't have to be obcessive about it and you don't have to fix him. just be a friend.
if you don't feel like you can be his friend then be honest. But don't play with something so special. be honest with him and yourself.
and do suggest he gets some help someone professional to help him through whatever.
good luck

2007-12-25 14:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by bongo515 2 · 2 0

It sounds like it's just a normal phase in a friendship and in life. Don't worry about what they think and just try to be tolerant of what they do. If they cross the line just let them know.

2007-12-25 14:22:13 · answer #11 · answered by Jaded 3 · 0 0

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