This was the last dream I had before waking up.
In this dream I am invited to an event at one of the country's most popular night clubs. This event has no specifications as to my attire, but though I initially decide to come as I am, in a sleeveless green shirt, I decide to wear a collared shirt; after all, I will be mingling with some of the country's elite.
When I arrive at the event, to my own surprise, I am in my sleeveless shirt, yet no one at the event seems to care; they just mind their own business. Even more surprising is the fact that I find one of my closest friends (who is DEFINITELY NOT a party person) at the event. He is the only other one wearing a sleeveless shirt (it's blue). I come up to him and he is surprised to see me too.
But what I find similarly shocking is the fact that he is not himself. He is a born-again Christian and he is normally kind, polite, and doesn't really get mad, and yet throughout the event, he is unusually rude and uncouth. (TO BE CONTINUED)
2007-12-25 13:31:16 · 5 answers · asked by Shooting STELLAR Press (MISAWA) 6 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
(CONTINUED) Like, whenever I ask him a question, he would either snap at me, shout at me, or answer sarcastically. Strangely enough, it seems I am the only person he is rude to; he never displays this behavior to anyone else.
When the event is over, and I am the only one left, I find a folded-up piece of paper on the dance floor, among the streamers and the balloons and the spilled booze. Instinctively, I pick it up and unfold it. It is four pages of photocopied sheets of ruled paper, and it is for me, from my best friend.
He apologizes for his behavior towards me during the event but then proceeds to defend his behavior. I can't remember most of what he wrote, save for the fact that he had just broken up with his girlfriend (which is weird, considering he's never had one), but the gist of it is, he's sorry he acted that way to me, but in the end, there was nothing wrong about what he did.
I know it's confusing, but I'd like you guys to help me figure it out. Thanks. :)
2007-12-25 13:37:21 · update #1
When friends show up in our dreams and they are acting totally out of character, then it is most likely they do not represent themselves, but someone, or something else.
The dream suggests that you have been invited to participate in some type of event - there is some type of honor to be invited to do so. In this setting, you may be feeling somewhat vulnerable or unprepared, but the dream encourages you that any vulnerability you are feeling is not really an issue at all to the group. The dream is also showing you that there is someone else you know or are in relationship to, who is basically in the same boat as you.
You may be feeling a "connection" with this person - he is also not really adequately prepared for this setting - but the dream indicates that he is not interested or willing to interact with you - is rude and unkind. Perhaps this person is trying to make others think he fits in better than you do - to not let the others involved think there is any connection between you and he.
The dream is showing you that you are not at fault in this situation. This other person is dealing with different issues and this is affecting his behavior. It is encouraging you to recognize this fact and so not judge or condemn this person, or take too personally his actions toward you.
It is unclear as to whether this is something you are presently involved in, or something you are about to be.
2007-12-26 01:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by Dreamin' In Colour 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The dream is centered arround one of your closest friends, who seems to show you that he has another side to his personality, that he is not happy with. A girl friend break up that did not happen is used as an excuse for showing the other side of himself. He may have had some emotional event that upset him recently, that you psychically picked up on. You may need to try to figure out more of what is going on with him. Being at a night club with some of the countries elite just seemed to be background for the dream, since you did not relate to these important people enough to mention them in the dream. You may just share a little bit of discomfort with your best friend in regard to formal social settings of that type, and both feel a little out of place or not fitting the part in places like that. You could pray or meditate on the situation about your friend and see if any inspiration comes to you about his situation, along with communicating on a little deeper level with him.
2007-12-25 14:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by astrogoodwin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This dream is showing you that you worry to much about yourself. It is showing you that people like you just the way you are. You have the ability to make it to the top and that there will be big changes in your near future. Your friend is going to find god had become a different person, but he needs your help also. Don't be surprised if you become a leader. Dreams are just goals we must conquer!
2007-12-25 15:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Wayne P 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I skimmed through it.
Good for you, hope you enjoyed the dream.
2007-12-25 13:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by I ♥ cupcakes 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
mmm i cant really figure out wats its bout....but looks like ur a clown in da party...
hahahhaa
2007-12-25 13:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by meerz 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋