My cousin's daughter moved in with her boyfriend. He's been claiming for weeks he'll go over there and beat up the boyfriend.
2007-12-25 13:16:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Your cousin is a nutbag.... i'm sure his daughter's boyfriend didn't bind and gag her and force her to move in.
Your cousin doesn't seem to realize his daughter made the CHOICE to move in with the boyfriend.
If she's an adult, he needs to mind his own business. And let her learn her own way.
2007-12-25 15:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been extremely unhappy about some of their relationships and have expressed my opinion about them when asked by my daughters, but I never tried to end one. They're big girls. They need to make their own decisions, mistakes and successes. My husband on the other hand...there are several young men over the years that he's wanted to "beat up" but never in a million years would he do so.
2007-12-25 21:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jen Y 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
haha im a teen so i know taht the more you object the more shell want to be with him, unless hes hurting her in any way you just ahve to let her figure out that hes not as great as he seems on her own. i know its hard when you want the best for her but everyone has these problems. people we love never think that the person were with are good enough untill they proove them selfs so just give the boy a chance and kick his butt later after she relizes her mistake. but chances are you wont even have to beat him up, gurls are good enough at making guys feel lower then dirt once he has hurt her, shes a big gurl who can handle her self now but will probably ask for help when and if she needs it, so let her have her space, just show her you support her and will always be around when ever she needs you!
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2007-12-25 21:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by lea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I moved out of my mom's at 18 with my daughter. I was with a man that my mother did not like at all. It got to the point where she broke my living room window after beating on it so hard because I would not let her into my house. I eventually learned ON MY OWN that he was a horrible man and was not right for me, nor anyone else. My mother has a right to speak her mind, but she definitely went TOO far. Parents should be able to give advice to their children, but should let them learn for themselves.
2007-12-25 21:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ari's Mom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your child is an adult, all this will cause is the child to end the relationship with the parent.
2007-12-25 21:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would do no good. Beating him (which I understand why he would want to) would only drive her deeper into his arms, so to speak. There are lots of other things he can do - no financial support, for example.
2007-12-25 21:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by Amy B® 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No once they're older they must do as they please - mind you I had all boys - my brother certainly would have seen off my ex if he had come back around here bothering me or my boys - he never did like him - and he was right!
2007-12-25 21:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to like it but you can't change it.
2007-12-25 21:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have not.
2007-12-25 21:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ... he shouldn't .. is she over age?
2007-12-25 21:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋