how do you guys deal with the fact that when you are at the beach or the pool and your wife/fiance is clad in a bikini all the guys are eye humping them. How can you stand other men looking at your woman and debasing her to nothing but a piece of meat? what do you tell yourselves?
2007-12-25 12:41:58 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
As long as no one cross the line their is no problem with it. Do you rather have a ugly girl that only you find attracted. If you feel so bad maybe you should talk with her but this is the 21st century and if thats now that she is your girlfriend what will come later if you 2 get married.
2007-12-25 12:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by opiapr 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Then YOU start wearing the bikini's instead.
Seriously, if you are so insecure in your relationship and do not trust her this much then you are going to drive her crazy.
Keep it up and she is going to kick you to the curb and start wearing bikini's around some other guy.
Besides, when you are at the pool, beach etc., it's a public place. Just what do you think is going to happen? Instead of being all jealous you should be proud that your girl has the body and the confidence to wear a bikini in public.
But like I said, if you keep acting like an immature, overprotective brat she is going to get sick of it real quick and kick you out of her life.
2007-12-25 15:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My philosophy is "look,but don't touch"
You cannot expect your g/f not to wear a bikini because of your reasons.You sound a tad jealous.Let your guard down.You obviously have a nice looking g/f so be happy with that fact.lt is human nature for the opposte sex to check each other out.
2007-12-25 14:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Ruby Jane 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that is a good question. From a woman's perspective though, in this culture, when a woman is dressed fully clad and all the other women are dressed sexy. It make you feel unattractive to be one of the 'un noticed' ones.
2007-12-25 12:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might not like it but she has every right to wear one if she wants to.
If other guys are staring at your girlfriend, why not have a sense of pride about it? Other guys think that she's attractive and that's a compliment to you.
My boyfriend loves it when I wear one. He thinks I look sexy and enjoys the reaction of other guys...and he knows that I more or less ignore the other guys...and that I'm going home with HIM...not the other guys.
EMT
2007-12-25 13:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by emt_me911 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
they could't be comfortable, yet i think of whoever wears them thinks they are finding appealing. To me they seem sluttish. i does not choose to be seen with a woman donning them on the sea coast and that i confident like a warm and fashionable seem for my female
2016-10-19 22:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol. If guys are checking your woman out I would take it as a compliment, the only time I would knock a sucka out is if they are obviously overly oggling them or if they make any remarks. Otherwise thats life man, you can't wrap your woman up in a blanket forever lol.
2007-12-25 12:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
It's like annoying flies when that happens you just want them to go away. Yer look it's just jealousy learn to relax a little and you will see that your wife/fiance loves you out of all of them.
2007-12-25 12:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
"Men" understand that's what happens....and if their partners like to wear bikinis they just put up with it because they know their partner respects them and nothing will happen.
Boys on the other hand act childish.
2007-12-25 13:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok im not a guy but i wana give you advice.you shud be happy your girl is wearing a bikini. not alot of girls like to wer bikinis beacause they are shy.but take the opportunity and say "you look very pretty".so what if they guys are checking her out?ignore them.they cant take your girl. shes your girl and they cant take her away from you.point blank.make her feel pretty and graceful instead of feeling uncomfortable about it
2007-12-25 12:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋