I can tell you how I lost against a martial artist, got into a fight in a back alley at a club, everything was going good, My standup was good and I was kicking the guys ***, then something happoned and we went down, the guy got into top possition and did the ground and pound on me until my faces was red
I later found out he was a wrestler in High School, started training in BJJ now so if we fight again i'd kick his *** because I'd know how to get out of it or protect myself on the ground, back then I didn't know anything, and if you think about it anyone can get into top possition by accident and if you don't know what to do you are f***
2007-12-25 12:49:39
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answered by Anonymous
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You already know the answer.
Your question is not about martial arts, it is about fighting.
And, you know that fighting is wrong, but you were in a situation where you were either forced, invited, or decided to fight.
Only you know which one of those is true.
If it was the first, then you were cornered and attacked, and used a minimal arsenal of what you have been taught to protect yourself. Now you feel badly about what happened, and are facing some backlash. If there is a group of his friends on your trail, get some help right away. If you are a kid, share the load with some adults you trust about the incident (i.e. parents, principal, teacher, school liaison officer).
If you are not a kid, seek other means of support, and keep your eyes open,
If the second or third scenario is true, then you may wish to honestly re-evaluate your training or your reaction to confrontation.
Specifically, ask yourself what you could have done to avoid the fight.
The best martial artists hold the saying: "run with pride". Avoiding confrontation and diffusing aggression is always the best course, as you already know.
Fights are never won, because there is nothing to win outside the ring. There is a lot to lose. For adults, there is litigation and jail. For underage, there is school suspension and relocation. For both, there is the problem of reprisal if you "win".
Self defense trainers have it right. They mainly teach how to avoid trouble, and offer a few proven techniques.
Martial arts are fun, good self discipline, and have practical application in the real world of police, security and military (although all these will use every weapon they have, flashlight, taser, stick, etc., before using hand to hand as the absolute last resort).
Despite my own training being primarily in striking, I have always admired Judo and wrestling of all the martial arts, as these two can be applied in a real (and rare) "no escape possible" self defense without hurting an opponent very much.
Good luck.
2007-12-25 21:27:39
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answered by dolphin 5
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Most of the time, it's people who tried learning martial arts, got in a fight somewhere, and lost. They then look at their art and say it's useless. This may be due to impatience. This may be due to inexperience. Either ways, we as humans these days expect fast results, rather than take the time to truly learn, then learn from our mistakes. Bruce Lee? He'd go out with Hawkins Cheung, start a fight with someone, and both of them would analyze each other to see why they won or loss. They learn from their mistakes and practice until they improve for next time. Also, most people base their opinion on their first involvement in a fight. THe first time you fight, you'll have adrenaline rush, and you'll also freeze. Once that's over, the next time you fight, your training will more likely take over. However, most of these days, many martial arts are taught for the health. Wushu? That's just for show. Sure, you get discipline, mental growth/awareness, and good health, but it's not really meant for fighting in the streets. Wing Chun is meant to fight in the streets. It's dirty - eye gauges, groin kicks... illegal competition moves. People will say WC doesn't work because they compare it to ring competitions where rules make illegal the majority of the WC strikes. Inexperience isn't better. I agree with you. If we have experience, we won't put ourself in a worse position. And yeah, as for those arrogant people, I wish they would be a bit more open minded.
2016-05-26 05:41:37
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answered by Anonymous
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Frank hit it on the head with the type of training required .
The training where the attacker throws one punch or kick and then stands while you do your super duper round house kicks flying kicks spin kicks or multiple strikes elbows punch etc is totally stupid and useless If this is the kind of training you are getting you will be defeated every time.I dont know the degree of force Frank means when he says full contact but it should be hard enough that you know if it had been with bare knuckles the result would have been fight ending or the beggining of the end for your attacker.I can give you a few instances of my use .ALL were one move affairs .One guy tried to grab me I palmed his groin he sat down suddenly another tried a left hand grab right punch I slapped his left hand away as I stepped in head but to the nose he went down 3rd one I quickly grabbed his left arm turned him and kicked his feet out from under him he landed on his tail bone I walked away .
Dont complicate things take the shortest most direct route and move in and pressure pressure pressure no let up he may think he is the attacker and if you allow that to remain true you will lose he must become the defender as soon as he makes a move .
Action is faster than reaction by taking the attack posistion away from him by closing and acting you force him to react to yourespond to you to fight on your terms not his.
2007-12-25 14:16:25
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answered by bunminjutsu 5
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Have you every studies martial arts? I am a female security guard for a large hospital. Most that I have to physically deal with are much larger than I am. We get crazy, drunk and drug addicts. Several times I have had to take one of these down to be restrained. I have studies martial arts for 34 years. Hold Blk Blt in 7 styles and a member of the Blk Blt Hall of fame. My male counter parts look to me for guideances and never treat me as a female but one of the guys. {A great compliment} I have their respect of which was earned by my ability. They know I want shy away from a fight and will always protect their back. Anything else you want to know?
2007-12-28 07:24:19
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answered by CALLISH 2
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I don't think that martial arts is useless. A good martial artist can beat anybody who is not well versed in fighting. Martial arts have been used by the Chinese as part of their military training which lead to the protection of their culture from outside invaders. Martial arts have also been used by people to become icons and multi-millionaires. Martial arts are still studied by the military today even though guns are mostly used in warfare today. Krav Maga, which is an Israeli martial art, is studied by all highly trained security personnel and these personnel are successful in protecting the people who run our world. Sorry for the long post but I feel passionate about martial arts. Its not only a way to protect yourself but it is also a way of finding your self.
2007-12-25 12:58:54
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answered by este_nunch 2
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Apparently you do, let's clarify something:
Martial arts that train unrealistically (no full resistance sparring, no full contact) are useless in a real fight. Martial arts that train realistically (full contact and full resisting opponents) are very useful in a real fight.
Martial arts that train unrealistically are still helpful in developing conditioning, discipline, and overall good shape.
Nothing is useless, it all depends on how you view things, and what your goal is.
In the past 10 years I've only fought once (outside the dojo and the ring), and it helped me, last year a guy tried to hit a lady friend of mine, I pushed him, he took a swing at me, I took the guy down very easily, and I was hitting him on the floor when we were separated, the guy was an ex-cop, my hand was bruised and his ego hurt, but nobody was seriously injured.
good luck!
2007-12-25 13:36:05
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answered by Frank the tank 7
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Martial arts are useless to those who do not have the mental, physical and spiritual strength, AND patience, to challenge themselves, to a one on one, in a discipline that can carry them through many journeys, trials and tribulations.
They will never discover the depth of their minds and capabilities.
They will tell people "it can't be done"... the whole time standing in the way of their own progress.
They accept their own experience as law and deny the positive experiences of others. (Heck! I do this myself with the Bruce Lee and Ninja questions asked on here.)
But no one can deny me my experiences as they have been true. My training carried me through trials and tribulations that would have put the average person in the grave with a self-inflicted wound.
Maybe I am weak. Had I not studied my art, and had the understanding in it, I would not be here having my Bruce Lee/Ninja fun.
Not every MA story has to be chock-full of kicking and punches. That is an incidental result of proper MA training. The mental, physical and spiritual strength is the highest gain. The thing you are not consciously aiming for, but hit BULLSEYE!
2007-12-25 19:08:00
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answered by Darth Scandalous 7
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I had to fight a couple towel heads because my weapon jammed,I fortunately am an expert in Martial arts and one hell of a street fighter.I am here they are with all their virgins and Allah.You fought a want to be Not everyone can fight I don't care if they hold a 6th degree black belt that only means they know the forms and terminology to pass the test for promotion.
2007-12-25 20:31:58
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answered by one10soldier 6
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Ur saying marital arts is useless because the other dudes threatened to beat u up??? U need to word your questions better. Marital Arts is not about beating someone into submission. Its about standing your ground when times are bad. ANd you did just that. So im not sure what ur asking here.
2007-12-25 15:04:04
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answered by Anonymous
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