K so my sons father seen him the first time in 6 months on saturday...and it was very hard bcuz he cried and was scared cuz he didnt know who he was...he talked to me..and said his fiance wasnt goign to bring him to my house so he could see him but she finally did. He was asking me things like.. "how do we know it would never work between us" and stuff and telling me that he thinks bout me all the time...and he got her ring thrown at him on the way to my house...and she said he should go back to me and he said he should because i treated him alot better..and all that...and i just told him id idtnw atn to talk about it. the im worried tho ebcause i kept tryign to get a hold of him so my son could tell him merry xmas...and i couldnt..then finally he called back and was very short...i mean he was nice...but u could tell he was being rushed. i heard his fiance in the background tellin him to get off the phone..i told him he was acting diff again and he replied "yea" and said well i will
2007-12-25 11:50:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
talk to you later..and i said ok then and asked if he was coming out to see him on xmas and he said no because they were goign to a movie. He also told me that he didnt think they were going to get married and that he was going to get his license back on friday reguardless of what she said....that way he could coem out anytime he wanted...beacuse i guess shes very controlling and wont let him do anything.
What does this all mean? is he going to walk out on him again?? does he just want me back?? did he just act like that today because SHE was with him? I don't know what to think or do. Please help...
2007-12-25 11:52:56 · update #1
i also asked when he was going to see him next and he said he did not know...but according to him before he was goign to come out after friday..did he just say he didnt know cuz SHE was there agin?
2007-12-25 11:54:16 · update #2
Stop fantasizing about this immature, insensitive jerk!
You need to be in line at the child support office obtaining child support for your child ,instead of worrying whether he is going to choose you as if he is a prize or something.
The way it seems he is no prize, but your child is and you need to focus on him.
2007-12-25 12:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥JDub♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might want you back, but ask yourself WHY? apparently, it didn't work out last time, from what you said he acts like a three year old, and can't make up his mind, he lets his girlfriend walk all over him and generally, he doesn't seem very stable.
What do you want? An unstable guy who acts like a toddler? if so, this is the guy for you.
2007-12-25 11:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
BULLSHIT!!! Okay bud, well I don't know what to tell ya, find another girlfriend or something. Love probably in your style is hard to get. I don't even have a girlfriend yet but, I have a long time to think about that probably! I'm only 17 and my birthday is April 27th.
2007-12-25 12:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman seems very controlling, for what reason is unknown. Probably jealousy. But until he overcomes that in their relationship it will be hard for him to have a relationship with his son. Do what is best for your son regardless.
2007-12-25 12:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by specialsuber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your son does not deserve to live in such an uncertain situation. Things are so mixed up between you and the babies father that it is by far best for your son to not have to live with it.
2007-12-25 12:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by jcf6865 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that he couldn't be honest to you because of her i don't think that he would walk out on his child be careful because if she is being controlling he maybe headed for a nerves break down you and your child dont want to get hurt
2007-12-25 12:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anna M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doin't let yourself get invovled with his crap. And he has enough of it going on that he needs to carry a shovel around.
2007-12-25 12:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously this woman is more important than his son. You child is what you should be worried about, not you and his relationship..
2007-12-25 11:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by SueWithTwo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋