My brother is really mean. My parents keep telling me to ignore him but I just can't. He makes fun of me with his friends and everybody laughs. I feel like they are ganging up on me. He keeps cussing at me. He makes me cry. He calls me a snitch. A bi***, a fat a**, and other remarks. When I talks to him he mocks me. Like my earlier ? I have family problems and I needed somebody to talk to. When I started crying in front of him and telling me how I felt he called me an motional brat an hit me. That is another reason my holidays got ruined. Then my brothers friend slept over and they are hitting me and making fun of me. Even though my brother is in college he still has breaks. He insults me online and when he comes home. He gets angry when I cry, talk, and come in front of him. I cant even talk to my friends because they went to other places. My dad isn't even here.My mom tries stopping him but it doesnt work. I dont know how to handle this.He makes me feel miserable in fron of everyone.
2007-12-25 11:09:16 · 6 answers · asked by ilovehimtodeath 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your brother sounds like a huge jerk, and he's in college?!? He sounds like a 12 year old! I'd stay away from him. If he embarrasses you in front of his friends, tell him to "Grow up and get a girlfriend" (I'm assuming he's single!). Ask him Why he picks on you...If he thinks about it, maybe he'll realize he has no reason and he'll act nice towards you.
Point out, IN FRONT of the people he's being a jerk in front of, that it really hurts your feelings...Bullies usually bully because they have an audience. If people realize this actually effects you negatively and makes you upset, maybe they'll stop giving him the attention (laughing, etc.) and realize he's a Loser.
2007-12-25 11:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 12:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry your brother treats you so rotten. your brother is being emotionally abusive to you, and it sounds to me like u need to get a counselor from your school involved. your mom isnt taking you seriously, because you are a kid. if you tell the counselor, the counselor will call your parents in for a conference, and they can figure out ways to get your brother help. he might have a chemical imbalance or some kind of disorder. once the adults identify the problem, they can put him on medication and get him into behavioral therapy. its normal for brothers to get into it and be mean to each other once in a while, but there is no reason why he should be being so abusive to you. it needs to be stopped before it gets really serious, and causes permanent damage to your relationship.
2007-12-25 11:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the phone and call someone that can help you., even if it is a cop. That is abuse, and he is an adult, so he might just as well find out now that he can't beat up on people without suffering the consequences. Hang in there, it will get better.
2007-12-25 11:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is college age and not a child but an adult to begin with. If your mother can't protect you u need to find an adult u trust perhaps, another adult family member to intervene and help or you need to talk to someone at school a counselor, teacher etc. that can help you. You shouldn't be taking such emotional abuse from him or anyone it will scar u as an adult if you don't get it resolved now. Maybe, an outside relative u trust..If u can get through to mother fine, but if she isn't helping situation seek help elsewhere..good luck to you...
2007-12-25 11:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't even give him the time of day. He's a jerk and some day he'll grow up and wish he'd treated you better.
2007-12-25 11:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by jacquie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋