i really liked this guy a lot.. nd he told me he loved me.. so being stupid i went and had sex with him.. then after a couple of days he said that he no longer loves me... he really knows how to sweet talk girls.. i really loved him and i am hurt so bad right now.. i feel so stupid for falling for his little plan.. how can i get back at him and make him hurt like the way he hurt me.. i still love him though.. im so confused..
2007-12-25 10:59:59 · 29 answers · asked by Tanya B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a cute boyfriend as soon as possible and show the jerk that u don't care and you're sooooo happy and you love your new boyfriend. Don't try to get back to him coz u have already wasted your time and your feelings with him. That's the only way that you can hurt his feelings...don't do something stupid again....i know how u feel honey...You should move on. REMEMBER...!!!...Completely ignore him..ok???..It will kill him..i promise...i will work
2007-12-25 11:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by Elena_Jolie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother to waste your time getting even. Get smart. Ignore him,move on, and don't be taken in by a "sweet talking guy" again... Learn from this. It takes time to really know someone. Love seldom just hits you between the eyes and passion that you might take for love at first can turn into a mud puddle full of dead worms in a few days.... I hope the two of you at least used "protection."
2007-12-25 19:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by singlegal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother trying to hurt his feelings, just go for good old-fashioned revenge. Be creative and figure out some way of mercilessly torturing him for a while before you deliver the final coup de gras and put him out of his misery: that should make YOU feel a whole lot better and acts as a useful reminder for him not to make the same mistake again.
2007-12-25 19:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by mr_charm_offensive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a mistake but forgive yourself and forgive him because revenge is a waste of time, energy and emotions. Unfortunately, you had to learn a lesson the hard way but that is one of the chapters in human life so just move on with your life and leave this negative experience behind. I wish you peace and true love in your future as you let go of all regret.
2007-12-25 19:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you love him? Move on! He's not worth it!
And since he knows how to sweet talk girls, to prevent him from finding other victims, have some friends help you make some flyers with his picture on it, warning everyone of this jerk.
I don't know if doing that is illegal or not. That's just a suggestion. No one would know who did it also.
2007-12-25 19:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's understandable that you're confused
I feel angry at whoever it is and i don't even kow you or him!
that's just unfair!
but that person is right
get new guys, i know how hard it is to find someone.. (still trying to get over someone) but you will be able to do it
and that will piss him off
i'm sure he's probably used to people that try and get revenge
but..you could be the different one, lose contact, just stop it all together. that'll rub it in..
and he'll realise he shouldn't have messed with you
argh i hate men like that
2007-12-25 19:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really getting him back isn't going to do much for you and will make you look really immature, just move on and don't make the same mistake again. Its a life lesson and it sucks but take something from it and grow.
2007-12-25 19:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Shavon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hurt him by loving yourself and then find someone to love you.
You hurt him by being happy and liking people.
You hurt him by being a better person than him.
And the best thing you can do is dont let it happen to someone else. If you see him hanging on a girl, you let her know what kind of guy he is.
2007-12-25 19:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by sammy3256 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Show him that you are having SO MUCH FUN without him in your life (even if that's not true, make him think that)
so that he will be jealous .... maybe try boasting about having a wonderful, caring boyfriend who you believe is the sexiest and best man you have ever known, (which means that he's inferior...lol)
2007-12-25 19:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Dreamer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy and date someone else. Or get a really good guy friend and pretend to date. Act like absolutly nothing happened in front of him and he'll be crushed.
Or if you really want to hurt him, say that you faked it in bed and he was too small to please you. THATS hitting below the belt and should only be used in extreame cases
2007-12-25 19:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by Dee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋