,and she says she is not coming back and we are over ,in her words its cos of my temper and hitting her in front of the kids ,putting her down in front of the kids as well, and she is saying she and the kids are happy now with out me cos there is no fights in front of the kids ,is she on drugs cos she is acting like it
2007-12-25 10:55:19 · 23 answers · asked by dazza 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is a joke right? Its got to be because unless you havent got a brain, of course she is happier without you. Domestic violence is not just the stuff that makes your partner unhappy, it is against the Law. Im taking this as a joke though....ha ha.
2007-12-25 11:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey what's your name? You sound like my husband!!! And I don't feel sorry about you're situation at all. If you really care about her and the kids you will do whatever is in your power to get them back. (nothing illegal) Counseling, therapy, medication, anger management, and ya know maybe a little separation time would be good for you. Maybe then you would realize how much she means to you. And if she does decide to come back maybe then you can treat her right!!! And I don't wanna hear any excuses as to why none of those options will work. Have you tried them?? Bet not. Bet your just looking for an easy fix all solution. Well we're all adults and not everything comes easy. The point is. If you care enough, you will do what needs to be done and follow through with it. Don't try to fix things just for the moent until she cxomes back and then start all over again. Because you keep doing that and one day she WILL NOT come back to you.
2007-12-25 19:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by kdlamb24 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SAD for asking this question true or not, if you have been hitting your gf in front of the kids you deserve to be left, if you have made this up you need to get a life and stop making things up that truly affect people in everyday living. Think you need some counselling either way!!!
2007-12-26 17:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by **Tiggers**mum** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hit your girlfriend, and not only do you hit her but you do it in front of the children? That is abuse and if the state found out the both of you could lose those children and should lose the children. She did the right thing and you need to get a grip and get into anger management immediately.
If she's lying, get a good lawyer.
2007-12-26 00:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by oh_my_its_linda 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't really understand. Did you hit her? If you did i grew up in that situation and it is no place for children to be. Please seek anger management or counselling as i think this could benefit you. . As for your partner? If you prove that you can change then you may have a chance of saving the relationship with her and/or your kids. Please don't end up like my dad. We were all together this Xmas and he was on his own as no one can forgive him as he cant admit he did wrong. There are 4 of us and only 1 talks to him. He has not seen three of his grand kids. It is sad because if he had admitted he needed help and got it he could still be part of our family
2007-12-25 21:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Courtney and Jazmine's mummy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well am not no drugs & i am in the same position as your partner & the only thing different is i got the police to mines & i am still in the house.
My 5yr old son said to me tonight that he was glad his dad wasen't here now as hes not hitting me or shouting, does that mean my son's on drugs too?
2007-12-25 19:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by The-she 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um...
You said you hit her infront of the kids?
Dude... She is ur girl friend and u have had kids and wtf lol.
DON'T HIT HER!
thats the reason she left durrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. She probably thinks ur gonna set a bad example to the kids. You probably were setting one by hitting their mum infront of them.
To try and make it better take up councelling or something, or maybe seek help from a friend and try to change. When you change tell her and she might take u back.
2007-12-25 19:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Pippa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you mad? Its because you hit her you silly man! You will NEVER have a proper relationship ever. Go get anger management course. She is better off without you and the kids too.
2007-12-25 18:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by **** 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
urmmm i dont think she is the one acting strange here, you shouldnt hit her, and in front of her kids, omg thats wrong on so many levels. She is better off without you and so are they.
2007-12-25 19:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by sally c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, don't ever hit a woman, your wife, or your wife infront of your kids! Common sense kid. You need to go to court and settle this, because they are your kids.
2007-12-25 18:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ewa 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋