there's this super sweet really nice guy that likes me. I dont know if I like him or not..I am not really attracted to his looks but he is really nice to me and sweet. Should I go out with him and give him a chance?
2007-12-25 10:31:44 · 30 answers · asked by what? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him a chance. Any sweet guy is worth giving a chance, especially with all of the jerks out there.
I was recently asked out by a guy I'm not attracted to, byt he has such a great personality and is so nice that I find myself falling for him. I regret turning him down the first time.
Just give him a chance. It's not like you will have to marry the guy. Even if you don't end up falling in love with the guy, any sweet guy, no matter how much it hurts them, will at least want to be your friend if things don't work out.
You'll never know unless you try. :D
Good luck!
2007-12-25 10:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by toothpickgurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! How old is he? I'm past the point of worrying about what a man looks like unless he's really really in bad health or quite obviously doesn't take good care of himself. The body changes as we age so looks don't last...but what's in the heart does.... Is there any chance you can just have a "friends" relationship for a while to find out if you might like the person he is inside? If he becomes a "go for it" kind of man once you get to know him you'd be in a perfect position to take the lead and let him know..... If he does not become your knight in shining armor you'd still have a friend. I'd give it a try.... Good guys are hard to find!
2007-12-25 10:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by singlegal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should. Give him a chance. Every guy deserves a chance. And if he's sweet and nice, go for it....there aren't that many guys like that out there.
And also, looks aren't everything, and while you want to date someone who looks good, don't base your opinion only on looks.
2007-12-25 10:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley Ward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are not everything - if he is nice to you and treats you well, why not?
How are you going to know if you like him if you don't spend some time with him.
True, a date may not lead to anything romantic between you, but you could have a nice time and maybe even becomes good friends.
So yes, if he treats you well, give him a chance and see where it leads.
If it turns out he is not your type, you can always say "no thanks", next time.
2007-12-25 10:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by lassiebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always the coffee or lunch date to see if there is any common interests you ntwl share. there are places to go and things to see--it might be fun. He sounds as if he might be OK and the only way to see is to try. Keep it all easy and fun and respectable. Look to see if he is courteous and interesting and educated. Millions of plain looking people are fun and happy and have great relationships--looks are NOT the only gauge for the strengths of a person. If he isn't what you thought--at least you tried. Good luck
2007-12-25 10:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't everything, sometimes when you get to know someone you find you actually like their looks, and can't even remember why you once thought they were not attractive. If you have decided he has no chance however, and he is really stuck on you, it might be kinder not to give him false hope.
2007-12-25 10:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks are so superficial. Even if you married the hottest guy on the planet eventually his looks will fade and his metabolism will change, he could get fat. Or he could be in an accident and be disfigured. My point is that looks are the last thing that matter in a healthy relationship. Your looks will fade too and if you marry a hot guy who stays hot, if he is shallow he could tire of you. So dont let looks be your priority.
2007-12-25 10:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are not everything. If hes really nice and sweet to you and you enjoy being with him and you have fun when youre with him, then sure go ahead! You have nothing to lose!
2007-12-25 10:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tracy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating for looks is overrated, if he's nice like you say he is and you like his personality you may grow to love him-who knows? I say Do It.
A ferrari looks nice on the outside, but you're gonna be seeing the inside while you drive it right? You don't need the best-looking, only the most comfortable.
2007-12-25 10:38:26 · answer #9 · answered by iamsuranovi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, give him a chance. Personality always conquers over the looks. So, if he has unattractive looks, you will get over with his looks and not be bothered by it. Don't pass the opportunity to be with a guy with a great personality.
2007-12-25 10:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋