So I have these two guy friends. They've never met. One of them is so nice and down to earth, but sometimes he seems to just forget bout my existence and won't even call me or anything for like 2 weeks. When we do talk again everything just seems to be perfect. Then there is the other guy who is also really cool and nice, but he can be really judgemental about things that even he has done before but no longer does. I know everyone has bad things about them, but they're good sides are what keep me wanting to talk to them. So which one sounds better???
2007-12-25 10:14:46 · 11 answers · asked by sweetprincess6001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say u make a chart wit good and bad and see which one of them has better sides that u like. honestly if u close your eyes and picture yourself who do u see making u happy between them both. think about who u will see yourself wit and still b yourself. good luck.
2007-12-25 10:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by annawuvzchris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left out a very important point---the one you love(if any) and why .It is always nice and flattering when we have more than one suitor that we sometimes forget the important things in romance, which is feelings.You have two guys that you are now dealing with but I want you to answer the following questions:1) what makes you think that they want to be with you in a boyfriend-girlfriend manner rather as just platonic friends2)How long have you known each of them3)Do you care for any one of them as a boyfriend, if so , which one do you like the most as a boyfriend4) what are the qualities you would like in a boyfriend or lover or husband and does any of these two guys have those qualities ;which one?5)What would you say if you found out that one of these guys has another gal that you know nothing about, a gal you have never met;would you be offended.I guarantee you that as soon you find the answers to the above questions, you will not only know which guy is better but also which one to choose as a boyfriend. Good luck.
2007-12-25 11:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only be asking yourself that question...YOU are the one who will be in the relationship with him...
-but with that said, here are my 2cents...
-The guy who doesn't call you for 2wks, have you asked him if he is looking for a committed relationship? Most guys -most people,( I'm guilty of it)...enjoy a certain someones company, but simply in a friendly or flirty way, so they space long time frames between hanging-outs... more likely than not they aren't looking for a committed relationship at the moment, or at least not with the person they can wait 2 weeks to see (you)
...so, question his motives or ask him, in a subtle way-slip it in some where, and if he feels uncomfortable or not interested it will be obvious and you can move on to guy #2...which in your description seems quite anal...someone has to inform him that his sh*t stinks just as bad as the other guy...I couldn't live with someone judging me, my friends, or family -or who ever-- at all, to be frank
...but the question is....
can you?
Don't settle for less than what you deserve.
good luck!
2007-12-25 10:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the nice down to earth guy, he seems the one who will really care for you ... the other guy seems like he is a "a game" guy who just wants sex and talks when he wants, ect. i cant stand those guys.
2007-12-25 11:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please you gotta be kidding? the first one. cuz he was a true friend you can hang out with and be yourself. the second one seems to be just a crush and sounds like he might turn out to be a playa. Bob will have a long relationship with you and very meaningful where as Bill would be over before it even gets started and he will probably break your heart....but you decide
2016-05-26 05:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you forget about both of them.they both seem adolesent.Find someone who will treat you with respect.But if you really do like both of these guys,pick the one youll be more happy with,and you would rather fight with.Not saying your going to fight.( :
2007-12-25 10:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first one
havent talked in 2 weeks means
that when you do talk you
have plenty to talk about
2007-12-25 10:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2nd one. there's nothing more pissing off then a guy who forgets about that you exist.
2007-12-25 10:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by SexyPrincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok none of us here know either of these guys (i'm assuming). i dont think any of us should decide for you. you have to choose for yourself who you like more.
2007-12-25 10:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by meeeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm....this is totally up to you.
which ever guy you think is right,
then go for it.
2007-12-25 10:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by asianchicka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋