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i have been best friends with this guy for 4 years before we went out. we talked about everything from his girlfriends to my boyfriends and hung out all the time. into the 5th year we got serious and went out and it was perfect. we went out 2 years straight and broke up because he cheated on me with someone 2 yrs younger than me. hes a year older than me. they went out for a year and in that year me and him were not allowed to hang out because she did not want him to have anything to do with me. but we hung out anyways and he told me how much he loves me and how he cant stand her. they broke up and me and him got back together but thats when things got rough because since we are both in different colleges but only 10 mins away from eachother, i keep hearing things about him going back to her and all these things. now we're on a break and are working at it again.. like the 15th time.. we just keep coming back to eachother because we're just happier. worth it??

2007-12-25 09:31:25 · 10 answers · asked by tina 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

wat u need to do is ask yourself if you truly love him..... if you really do then hes probably worth it, but if hes not then even though you probably dont want to hear this, but what good is it to anyone if you're just waisting your time on a guy from an old relationship, it consumes all your energy and it ends up hurting you.

So sit down and talk to him....but figure it out first

if you really do love him...listen to his side of things and if it is true that he was cheating on you again, but you really do love him, do one of two thing:

get even
or
find a way to get over it

2007-12-25 09:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ali 2 · 0 0

it sounds like he does not place the same priority on the relationship as you do --- sit down and talk it out NOT take a "break" to me that is just an excuse for one of both to see other people without thinking they are cheating ---- if he cant see that he is being silly (and bouncing between two people without making a choice is silly) then say goodbye as he will never change ---- best wishes

2007-12-25 09:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0 0

It sounds to me as if he likes to go back and forth between the two of you. He cheated on you with her and then saw you on the sly when he was with her and not supposed to have any contact with you. He has a lot to prove and rebuild, trust wise, if he wants to date you again. Ultimately, it's up to you, but consider his past actions and ask yourself if that's something you are ready to have always in the back of your mind. Trust is so very important in a relationship and he hasn't earned yours.

2007-12-25 09:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by emo girl 2 · 0 0

well it is, in the long run ur choice. my suggestion would be to stay friends and not bf/gf. b/c he likes to have more than 1 woman and he probly always will. its a controlling thing, he sounds like good friend material, but not bf material!

2007-12-25 09:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

So not worth it!!! Hullo, it's time to chuck the drama and find someone who will treat you right!

2007-12-25 09:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Dont do it... Your relationship was over a year ago... He cheated on you... You might be able to forgive it , but you will never forget it.... Move on honey...

2007-12-25 09:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you think it's worth it, then it's worth it. Sounds like a heartache waiting to happen.

2007-12-25 09:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by feline_farmer1 3 · 0 0

This is a drama......your bf likes having two women.

2007-12-25 09:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Marina 7 · 0 0

you need to find someone new, i know it sounda bad because its hard to do, but if you move on, he will relise what he lost and want you back badddd.

2007-12-25 09:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2007-12-25 09:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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