well
i got a big problem
i knew this gurl in the 7th grade
i fell in luv at her
she wanted me to follow her to the library and things
well
after that in the 8th grade
we got mad at each other
we didnt talked for a full skool year.
in the 9th grade, we talked again
i talked to her nice, and things we hugged each other anywayz we were great friends
in the 10th grade she told me bout her secrets and things. she even told me about this boy he lyks since 8th grade, "hes my friend" well i got my feelings straight
i luv her
she got a boyfriend tho
that she doesnt trust "its not my friend tho"
wut should i do??
i want to be more than a friend
but i dont wanna get her freak out
2007-12-25 08:36:32 · 11 answers · asked by Jose R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all.....WOW!!!...u do have some issues....ok.....well where to start...being that u know her for so so long and im thinking u hav her number, call her up start talkin....get deep into her feelings to the point where she feels that you're her everything...to the point where she feels that she couldnt do anything with out you. ( if you dont kno how to do that, you should talk to her get deep in her feelings while doin that she might say something like: "my boyfriend is always sneakin around, i kno hes up to sumthin." and you'd say:"i wouldn't ever do anything to hurt u"...lol just squeeze that in there, it may sound corny, but it might just be the little hint she needs to kno.) one big thing to do is to put out there that you dont want you n her friendship to be the problem of their relationship, so she wont think u pushin up on her, come smooth not messy in your approach. .....i hope this works for u....n everything takes time......u better use this advice!!.....especially since it took me forever to type!!!!....GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-12-25 08:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Shaa_vi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, ok. he's leaving and in no way coming back. nicely that places you being 18 till you are able to now flow and be with him. I wager over the summer season or this next college 12 months you will spot some guy which would be greater advantageous finding and you will have not got any bf protecting you back and you may flow after him. You have been finding for a guy once you got here across him and there will be yet another. stable success.
2016-10-19 21:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o man that must suk! heres da thing if i were u id wait 4 her 2 leave her bf , bu twhileu comfort her tell her dat she deserves a guy who'll always be there 4 her a guy that'll give her the love she deserves...and shes gonna say but there r no guys lyk dat, or all thoes guys r taken/gay etc. u should let her know that shes wrong and use urself as an example , she'll get abit of wat ur tryin 2 say she might feel uncomfortable at first but u need 2 give her alot of attention then after a while STOP!! as days pass she'll start 2 mis the attention and will want u! trust me all u gotta do is give her attention and take it away, that'll leave her wondering about u!!! GOOD LUCK!
2007-12-25 08:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by smams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a fairytale world, it sounds like u might b the friend that shes liked since 8th grade.
but in reality, it might b true. still, if u want to make it more, wait until they break up[at least 2 weeks after]. then tell her that u like her. dont say love. that can freak ppl out. say u have feelings for her or something just avoid love. then cross ur fingers and hope everything works out
2007-12-25 08:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know you like her and if hes not your friend then who cares man if you love her get her back by all means because love is a big thing you don't want to lose my friend
2007-12-25 08:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say step up tell her how you feel about her and what you can offer her in a relationship and I say go for it
2007-12-25 08:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by crecychris90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her because she might feel the same way about you and just dont know how to tell her , it has to be something if you have liked her this long
2007-12-25 08:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by marypenn77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt get what you were saying sounds like you need to keep hands off to avoid a let down MERRY CHRISTMAS HOPE ITS BEEN ONE FOR YOU
2007-12-25 08:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to impress her, maybe win her back, go back to school and learn how to spell.
2007-12-25 08:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by ivanjercenov 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made it sound like she has a boyfriend, if so don,t
get involved with her and inflict hurt upon yourself.
2007-12-25 08:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋