Who are they.My hubby was one of them before we got married.They kicked him out because he married me.Because I am not one of them and never will be.My hubby somewhere inside still wants to go back but I want to do something to keep him away from those people.What can I do?
I dont have any religion but I wanna be a good christian but how and how with him.I dont want that boring people around me.
2007-12-25 04:19:58 · 25 answers · asked by delight 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
A 22 year old mother of two twins has just died because she wasn't allowed to have a blood transfusion. Th JWs stood by and watched this happen. This could happen to you or any children you might have.
Run for your life away from this evil organisation. They will take your mind and take every penny you have as well.
The religion is really only a front. Their real business is dealing in Real estate and making billions of pounds from it, using the ordinary rank and file members money to buy the properties with.
Run run run.
2007-12-25 12:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by monno 1 · 4⤊ 5⤋
I am like your husband , disfellowshiped.
Sorry but i do not believe he was disfellowshiped just for marring you , there would have to be more to it than that like sex before marriage.
You are not disfellowshiped for making a mistake you are disfellowshiped for not wanting to change your way , being unrepentant.
Deep down inside your husband knows it's the truth and if you love him do not hold him back from returning to his spiritual home.
It is unfair to tie a chain around his neck and try to false him to go to those other false religions , Jehovah is calling him home and he will return.It's like trying to hold water in your hand the tighter you squeeze the more you spill.
You maybe surprised what a better husband you get if you let him go.
I know as i am going through this right now, i am returning to where i belong and let no man or woman try to keep me away , if your right eye offends you pull it out.
2007-12-25 12:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by pestie58 the spider hunter 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The reason people are disfellowshipped is to give them time to think about what they have done that has displeased Jehovah.
He has thought it all out...made his union with you legal and now nothing stands in his way of resuming his quest of serving Jehovah God whole-souled.
Once you are a Witness you are never happy with anything else.
Your eyes have been opened and you can see the hypocrisy in other faiths.
You can choose to stand by your husband and learn about a good life with real friends or try to stand in his way which may cause the division between you that you don't want.
Remember he was a Witness when you met him...he will always be one in his heart.
2007-12-25 05:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 11⤊ 3⤋
Try asking yourself, deep down, why does he still want to be a JW? I used to feel like that all the time (when I was "kicked out" as you put it), it's like a hollow feeling. It wasn't until I returned and was accepted again until that feeling went away. He feels like that because he is not fulfilling his "spiritual need" as the bible puts it. He knows that the religion (JWs) is right.
Try looking into the religion via other JWs to see for yourself why he misses it.
JWs may come across as boring but they are just sticking to bible guidance (e.g. no sex before marriage, not getting drunk etc). It may seem like it's over strict but you do feel the difference, it benefits you. Just like the laws of the country are there as a protection (e.g. traffic laws), so too is the bible's advice - it's there as a protection from harm to yourself AND to society (which is what God wants). Worshipping and loving God doesn't necessarily mean bowing down to Him, it means listening and obeying Him.
2007-12-25 05:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Paul S 4 · 13⤊ 3⤋
Thats a misinformed statement you just made, about your husband being kicked out for marrying you for i married someone that was NOT a witness & did not get kicked out.
You have to try other reasons no one is kicked out its' up to the individual to leave. if you mean disfellowshipped, same principal arrives its up to the individual because of willful disobedience. Marrying outside the organization is no grounds for disfellowshipping but is frowned upon. So please im not saying for you not to say untruths (who am i to tell you?) just have your facts straight before stating an untrue statement. bored huh i wonder why he wants to come back then?
2007-12-25 04:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by ray_clrk 5 · 9⤊ 3⤋
No one gets kicked out for marrying a non-JW. Unless they are having sex before marriage. They get kicked out for the pre-marital sex, not the person they're having it with.
Now what Jehovah's Witness in their right state of mind would help you to do that?
2007-12-25 09:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
that is not true. in my kingdom hall, there are some who did not married a Jehovah Witness and they are still witnesses. there has to be more to it that he is no longer a witness. he will not be happy unless he has Jehovah God back in his life. he is the head of the family. we are not a cult as many keep saying. when ones who turn there back on Jehovah or who know nothing about us will say we are a cult. a cult worships man, we worship the one True God Jehovah and do what Jesus Christ commanded at Matthew 28 verse 19 and 20. see the website and learn what we are all about at www.watchtower.org
2007-12-25 04:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 13⤊ 3⤋
My heart goes out to your husband.
He has walked away from Jehovah and now you hinder his way back. No wonder the bible says marry only in the lord.
As for you, your love for your husband should guide you in providing him with his hearts desire, be very careful you do not push him away. Remember one very important fact, whether you like it or not, Jehovah loves you too.
2007-12-25 09:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 3⤋
Good luck with your quest. I believe but have no label .However Juggernaut claims to follow the truth , why then is he or she hiding behind a false identity?
Juggernaut I meant no offence but I am confused. As you believe in the bible yet you do not follow the words of your own conviction.(Mathew 5 verse 16 ). May your god bless you all for your negative responses.
2007-12-25 07:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by kipper 3 · 0⤊ 6⤋
What a Weird Question. You were Married to one and your Husband never explained to you who or what they believed, so you needed to come in here and ask ?
Enough Said.
2007-12-25 07:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by conundrum 7 · 7⤊ 3⤋