The girl who loves me is my friend but i don't know how she falled in my love now she loves me too much and i have already told her abt me that i love other girl and will marry with her, still she loves me..i like that girl but as a very good friend she has same qualities as my loved girl.. now tell me what should i do... she knew everything but love me too....and her lolve for seems too real not as attrection only!!!!!!!
2007-12-25 01:40:58 · 36 answers · asked by Love mexxxxxxxim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you feel when you think about both of them.....
You say you want to marry one.... sounds like to me you have already made your mind up..... apart of life is getting hurt, you have to do what is going to make you happy, either way you will end up with one of them hurt....
sounds like you have a tough decision to make, better make it soon before it goes on too long.
Merry Christmas!
2007-12-25 01:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by sweetenuf22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you've got to slow things down. the friend could love you more than the other because she has stood by you in good and in bad times and you have known each other for years. the question for you maybe is.. to what extent do you love the two girls? if you would be the late Christopher Reeve, whom do you think would stand by you in that situation.
love, yes is boundless, not just limited to an attraction or part of personalities. Friendship has offered an atmosphere of unconditional in which you could be fully you whenever she's around. I think if you'll fall for your friend, it will deepens the relationship.
2007-12-25 01:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do the girl U love, loves U too? If yes and u love her too then u go for her. A one sided love is not sustainable, in long terms. Make her understand that U can not ditch that other girl and help her (ur friend) come out of this situation.
2007-12-25 01:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to learn how to type cause that didnt make any sence.
just go get married. there is nothing else you can do for your friend. if you dont love her and she has no chance with you then your doing her a favor by getting married beacuse now she will know that she has no chance left and she wont spend the rest of her life hoping that youll fall in love with her. you might loose your friendship but in thats what its going to take.
2007-12-25 01:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a lucky person, but the decision you have to make is very difficult. You need to look at this carefully, and follow your heart. Think of the one you want to be with, who do you think of first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Who do you miss most when they are not around, who loves you dearly, and who do you love dearly. You have to realise that you will have to hurt one person, and sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. Good luck
2007-12-25 04:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ruksana P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What an immature question ! DO you think marriages are through oneway love ? Ofcourse it should be mutual love. You didn't mention whether the first girl also loves you or not. If yes then marry the first girl.
2007-12-25 03:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by VILAS S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
very hard to understand what you are saying i think you need
to learn to spell before asking any more questions
as to the girls , dont rush into any thing if you are not sure.
when you know where your heart lies then you will know the answer your self with out asking for help, its easy to marry but harder to divorce
take a break away from both of them and your heart should tell you which one you miss the most
2007-12-25 01:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by Sunny 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me as if you aren't sure. Your first statement was I love and want to marry this girl. . it should have ended there if you truly believe this is the ONLY woman for you. The fact that you're even questioning the other one is a sign maybe you're not as sure as you think you are. . .hmm . . . maybe you need to slow up a bit.
2007-12-25 02:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Cris 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to go with the one you love , I did and the guy that was in love with me is still my Friend over 20 years later and he even named his three children after me. We are friends til the end, good luck.
2007-12-25 02:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by datsleather 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better to get married to the girl who loves you.
2007-12-25 01:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by chidambaram k 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋