He told he didn't see a future with us he didn't want to have another long distance relationship and he was having a bad feeling about me coming over for the holidays but he said he still cared about me and he still wanted me in his life,when just the night before he was telling me he loved me and wanted to be with me and last week i told him if he didn't want to talk to me just let me know and everytime we had a problem he was like i just wanna be with you and i wanna live with you filling my head up with **** and now this,didn't give any explanation except he said he was an asshole i do messed up things,and he was having a guilty concience or some bullcrap,i don't think he was with anyone else and even if he was that still doesn't explain the bullsh*t christmas he gave me,i'm pissed off by the way i mean wtf why waste my time and put me in a place i wasn't to sure about just to dump me friggin ******
2007-12-25 01:35:18 · 12 answers · asked by cookiesssssssssss 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you gota know whats going on
2007-12-25 01:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
He doesn't care for you. He is only saying that to soften the blow for dumping you on Xmas eve.
He obviously were hiding something from you. Since he admitted to having a guilty conscience, more likely he'd done something that can possibly shattered your trust so that's why he ended the relationship.
You are better off without him in your life-- I mean anyone with a heart wouldn't ruin someones holiday like that. Also tell him that you don't accept any kind of 'friendship' from him and he can just **** off.
2007-12-27 15:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by ranay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it like this you got a new start for the New Year take advantage of it and forget this person it will take a little time but you will have a better new year
2007-12-25 10:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by datsleather 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry this happened to you, and I'm sorry that anything I say will not make it feel better. All you can do is keep yourself busy and try forgetting him, if it's not meant to be then it's not, get on with your life and with you! Guys can be insensitive jerks they don't care that it's Christmas or Valentines or any of that. Try to be strong for yourself and your family and try to enjoy yourself.
2007-12-25 09:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy probally needs time for himself maybe you seperating with him right now is a good thing.. you could always tell him how you feel about this and he could explain it to you... but i hope you get over this, it's christmas!
Good Luck
Happy Holidays
2007-12-25 09:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by ~♥Smelly Sock Sister♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Celebrate! Time will show you that freeing up the space this waffler was taking up was actually a great gift. Thank the universe or God or the heavens or whatever you thank.
2007-12-25 09:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by topink 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Instead of being angry, perhaps you should thank him for giving you the gift of freedom for Christmas.
Now you are free to find someone who really cares about you...
Sounds like the best gift he could have given you.
2007-12-25 09:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your boyfriend is a jerk and i bet u he is seeing someboby else dont waste your time over this jerk there is somebody else 4 u right now who is worthy of your time
2007-12-25 16:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by bwembya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance? That means he has a gf, and you're the "out of town, far way sometimes sex gf"....sorry baby....
2007-12-25 09:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that sucks. why didnt he do it BEFORE winter and stuff???cause nothing is more worse than getting dumped on on c-eve.
2007-12-25 09:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by hcoandfitchxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I got dumped a few months ago, it doesn't matter when it is it sucks
2007-12-25 09:37:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋