and also i like a girl but since i don't know how to show my true feelings, i always tease her to the point that she cannot say anything anymore.. what can i do, i like her but it seems i don't know how to approach them
p.s. : I have a bad boy image (some girls like it though) so i am not that popular with girls but very popular with the guys (not in a romantic way though)
2007-12-25 01:29:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anarchy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I act like an a$$hole because men and women alike hurt me and threw my trust away
2007-12-25 01:42:47 · update #1
Some times we have to be two different people, so people can see that we really are nice, but because of where we live, we have to put on the bad boy image to survive. You need to be away from your male friends and go up to a girl and be the best person you know how to be. Let her get to know who you really are. Happened to me and I married a wonderful man and the bad boy image went away, because he wanted to be with me, and give me the best he could.
2007-12-25 01:39:39 · answer #1 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Where do I begin. . . . the first thing that I notice is that you say "I have a bad boy image". Now since I'm old enough to have been through 12 grades almost 3 times, I'm old enough and smart enough to know that a bad boy image in school is just a put on. We (cause I did it too) put on that image to make people think that we're tougher than we are, and inside, we're just teddy bears. Lucky for me, I put down this bad boy image before college, and just started being myself. What I found is that I got better responses from everyone, not just girls when I let the real me show, instead of putting on some front of how I wanted everyone else to perceive me.
So drop the bad boy image, and show everyone who you really are, and I'll bet you'll see a big difference in the amount of girls that like you.
Hope this helps,
Get T
2007-12-25 01:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like guys that are comfortable just being themselves...and that includes showing their emotions as they feel them. You aren't going to get anywhere further by teasing this girl, other than making her irritated and angry and I don't think that's the effect you are looking for. You seem to be able to put together a coherent question...why not write her a short note expressing how you feel? Given your "bad boy" image, this may shock her in a good way.
2007-12-25 01:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i value emotional transparency quite a lot.
when a guy confides a problem to me, it does not mean to me that he's weak. I feel that he trusts me and in similar way my being emotionally open is also welcomed the way he becomes open to me. i appreciate when my guy tells me that he fears something but has a resolution how to go about it or is not shy to ask me from time to time what shall he do. Because being emotionally transparent could mean that he could be a good listener to me. and that is a big WOW.
2007-12-25 02:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always believe in actions speak louder than words...........express it, when you really like someone say it..the elast that can happen is they will say yes or no, b ut why go to the negative possibility, since you are lucky because you know your weakness...then build on that , and make your weakness/es as a source of your strenght...this works believe me, it does!!! good luck anyway...just be gentle and do all your actions in subtle way ok???
2007-12-25 01:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by E@rthGoddess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me,
i prefer to shows guys feelings...
its nice to know that boy likes me..
i think, others do too..
much better if you make it change your image..
other girls like a good image
rather than bad image..
i hope ull get my point..
thanks!
2007-12-25 01:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are different girls and different types of people, some like when they show there emotions, some like when boys hide them...you will have to guess or try to say something and look at the reaction of you girl....Good luck!
2007-12-25 01:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show definitely.
i'm not a fan of the bad boy image either.
i'm just not interested in some guy who thinks he's Mr. Cool Rebel.
2007-12-25 01:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by LouLouEm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol Instead of teasing her so much, try opening doors for her and if she drops something, pick it up. Smile at her and be a gentleman, girls like that. :) Merry Christmas!
2007-12-25 01:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like a guy to semi show his emotions but nothing crasy like !
2007-12-25 01:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋