2007-12-24 19:51:29 · 24 answers · asked by Sonia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
2007-12-24 19:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I believe it all depends on your morals and standards.
This decision is completely up to you, but if you want advice then I would have to tell you that if you have been in a relationship to the point where you feel comfortable enough to expose yourself and be vulnerable, in all your flaws and insecurities to someone that you care about and that person mutually cares for you back then go for it. Just keep in mind that as a young girl it can be very easy to get emotionally attached to your sexual partner. Young boys most likely are just out to have a good time, I think that if you approach sex with the same attitude you will be less likely to end up emotionally scarred or hurt from it. You also have to think about what is driving your desire to have sex, purely hormones. Don't forget first and foremost protection protection protection. My dear, I can't say that enough you need to protect yourself from pregnancy (unless you want a child, which I highly doubt between those ages.) And of course protect yourself from STD's!!! Keep in mind having sex can be a life altering experience for the first time. Choose the right person and try to envision what you can picture this person doing and acting like towards you after you've had sex with them! You can't take your virginity back once you've lost it so take some time to weigh out your own personal pros and cons.
2007-12-24 20:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by ExpectingaBoy2012 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok as long as the following conditions are satisfied:
1. You are of the legal age (16 or 18)
2. You are married to the person you lose your virginity to
2007-12-24 19:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think it's really a matter of personal choice. Probably not what you wanted to hear, but conservatives will say wait until you're married, liberals are more likely to say 15-20 is okay. I personally believe as long as both people are willing and of legal consent, it isn't ethically wrong. but as for myself, i would never have sex w. someone i didn't care about.
2007-12-24 19:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. It may seem like an okay thing at the time, but then you realize that later on you find someone really special that you wish you would have waited for. Life is too short for regrets. Always make sure it's what you want to do. Not what's okay to do.
2007-12-24 19:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by danesilver 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No.
I mean, it doesn't matter in the end, because the person you end up with will love you no matter who you are or what you have done. The only problem is that it hurts. Eventually you will have to share that will almost every deep relationship you are in (if the first one doesn't work out). It hurts your boyfriend/girlfriend a lot. It will subside, but I still think it's not really worth it.
2007-12-24 19:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by niiro13 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
hey!
i think its not good to lose your virginity in this age for many reasons... first, does that one who you'll lose your virginity for deserves you!! you'll say yes, but in this age can you know who's the good person and who'se bad?? i think you can't even if you know this one that you'll lose your virginity for but everything in this life is comlicated sometimes we're decieved by our best friends so who knows...! and i think in this age everybody is searching for the good person and everybody in this age is confused so we might choose the bad and then you know bad things will happen especially if you slept with this one who might be bad... and you may get sick with a dangerous disease... so anyway thats not good...
so if you lost your virginity for a bad one , bad things will happen later and if u chose the right person he won't sleep with you because he cares about you :)
2007-12-25 05:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 20 is not that bad but 15/16 is not okay...
2007-12-24 20:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by .ooo. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't and I'm 18, most 20 year old are copulating though from what I know, except my ex, who's a virgin.
2007-12-24 19:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by slayer_gurl888 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
15-20... 'young' is a matter of opinion.
but 15-20 is perfectly fine, even a good thing for their future.
2007-12-24 20:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by darth_maddolis 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
16 is about the right time to me, 15 seems a little young for some reason. When you turn 16 you have more responsibility just cuz you can drive and sex is something to be responsible about as well.
2007-12-24 19:54:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋