My friend has been able go move her head only for years. Her mouth guides her wheelchair. A month ago she began to have electrical shock(feelings) in her jaw and of course this has made it impossible for her to eat or drink. She went to the hospital and got out a few days ago. We have to get water in her with a sirange(I sure do not know how to spell syerange). We will be saying good by to her soon because her family is moving her down to their town to a nursing home. How awful. She and we do not want her in the nursing home. Do you think this is the final stage for her? Please pray for this beautiful lady. She looks like Mrs.Clause. Can you give me ideas on time left?
2007-12-24 14:28:58 · 9 answers · asked by grannywinkie 6 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
What you feel is a good thing, but she really does need this 24 hour a day care that the Nursing Home can provide, & if she dies, it's better that it happens there, to avoid an Autopsy on her body. Some Nursing Home Staff Members gives Nursing Homes a bad rap, but these people are highly skilled at this, & this is something your friend really needs right now.
2007-12-24 15:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by srbyn1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pray that she will either heal or pass quickly and quietly and be joined with God. It does sound as if she's in the last stages of her life, sadly. Give her all the love you can because there probably isn't much time left for her.
As for how much longer she has is up to the lord, not her or any doctor. Sorry I couldn't help you there.
Also, you spell it "syringe".
2007-12-24 14:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jaxxonz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is very sad to read, no one knows exactly about ones death day. but the conditions u have written here suggest that she is leading a very painful life for herself and parents as well. we all have to die sooner or later, it sounds for her that she may say good by to this world in next few years. May Allah alleviate her pain make the life easy for her. ameen.
2007-12-24 14:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that ...but look at it this way....She is about to embark on the most wondrous journey she can imagine....no pain,no handicaps and it lasts forever....my thoughts and prayers are with you both
2007-12-24 14:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by tooldaddy2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only GOD knows the time she has left. Use every minute you have left with her to let her know you love her. She needs to be with her family now where they can look after her. Don't let her see your pain, it will only make hers harder to bear.
2007-12-24 14:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Pancakke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope she gets out of it soon!
the situatio u are telling is worse than death i belive,
god bless every sinned, and give every1 peace
Merry christmas anyways maam!
2007-12-25 03:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like she is nearing the end of her journey here. I will keep her in my thoughts this Christmas. You as well.
2007-12-24 14:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A prayer just went out to her!
2007-12-24 14:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by doris_38133 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will be in my prayers, from your description
i feel she does not have long to live.
i hope i am wrong.
2007-12-24 14:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋