So it's been about 8 years since I've dated. I'm 20 yrs old. I'm a full time college student with a part time job. I am not like your typical college party hardy girl. I love to go out & have fun, but with that I have morals & for that, I'm still a virgin. So, I'm very picky when it comes to guy, standards are high, but I try to be realistic. *At my job, I just started to get acquainted with a guy who is a couple months younger than I. Come to find out he has similar values. Since it's Christmas, it would suck to be alone for the holiday. He & I just flirt a lot & he seems to care about what I think and stuff, so we are interested in each other, but are just taking it one step at a time. We're discrete. I just found out he'll be alone for Xmas, as he& his dad are fighting& his mother, well, he hasn't spoken to her for a while. From what I understand, she's a very self-fish lady.
*Would it be wrong for me visit him tomorrow with food, so he can have company on Xmas?...
2007-12-24 11:29:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
He has a roommate, who I think left to visit family. I care for him and it sucks for him to be alone.
2007-12-24 11:30:14 · update #1
Yeah, thats right I haven't dated since I was 12 years old, I'm picky** long term is what I want.
2007-12-24 11:43:51 · update #2
8 years huh? So last time you dated you were 12? okay.
No if you're interested in him theres not one thing wrong with hanging out with him on xmas.
2007-12-24 11:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Blah Blah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call, do not show up unannounced. News flash, you probably ought to exclude your dates as a 12 year old as part of your resume, it sort of makes you come across as simple.
I'm sure he'll enjoy the food and your company. It is about time you start getting into life, and that includes a social life with people you have similar interests with.
2007-12-24 21:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nobody likes to be alone on a holiday.
But don't make this into some big relationship dealmaker/dealbreaker. Go. Feed him. Be good company. If something develops, fine. But don't push it just now.
2007-12-24 19:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him up tommorrow..ask him if he wants some company offer to bring over food( make a lil somethin or chinese takeout!) spend the day watching christmas specials and stuff...lol
2007-12-24 21:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by Princess Consuela B. Hammock 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call him ahead of time just to make sure he's there & comfortable with it. Try to make it casual. I think it's a great idea!
You go, girl! haha
2007-12-25 00:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by zmamasita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. call before you leave, just in case he finds something to do.
sound nonchalant. and make sure you have pie.
or comfort food in general is good mmm.
good luck. i hope he cares for you and isnt just trying to get into your pants.
2007-12-24 19:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Teeday R. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl!! Do it! That would be huge! He will probably fall in love with you for that. I'm just being silly but really....do it. You are awesome.
2007-12-24 21:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mary Posa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may not want to just show up, talk to him and see if he is cool with you guys hanging out for christmas.
2007-12-24 19:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by meganvs1221 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should if you want to.
Call him first to make sure it's ok with him, but I think you would do that anyway.
2007-12-24 19:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by abbbijo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2007-12-24 19:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋