Hey, i am 16 and i was wondering if it is ok if i am nude around my cousin. She is 21 and her and i have been nude around each other before. We dont do it to be sexual, but we both feel comfortable this way and it doesnt bother us. We go and swim in her pool nude, and take hikes in the woods behind her house nude too. Im not sure if this is wrong or not though since she is older and a girl and i am a boy.
2007-12-24 07:14:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Nothing wrong with nudity, there nothing vile,dirty or offensive about the human body, and being nude is a perfectly natural state..in a lot of the world, family members are used to seeing each other naked, and often , bathe, swim and sauna together.As long as your comfortable doing it and its not a sex thing its fine.The taboo against nudity is unhealthy and a contributing factor to things like porn and sexual depravity, which is why there is less of that stuff in countries and families that are more open and comfortable with nature.
2007-12-25 03:04:29 · answer #1 · answered by little_whipped_mousey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on your family, morals and upbringing. If your family has always had a history of going around in the nude infront of other family members then I guess there is really nothing wrong with it. How acceptable it may be depends on your personal preference I suppose. If she doesn't care and you don't either, then I suppose there is not a problem. However if this ever becomes a sexual perversion than it probably is not a good idea to keep it up.
2007-12-24 15:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by SoAZ Gal 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
People are going to tell you it is wrong, but you aren't hurting anyone and not really doing anything improper. If you're both comfortable with it, don't worry, but you might be a bit more conservative around other people.
2007-12-24 15:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by mcq316 7 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Fine so long as no-one finds out...
If they do they are gonna freak, you will be in trouble! She will be in more trouble seeing as she's older! Caution!
2007-12-24 16:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by Steve D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is ok as long as you are in a place that is private.
2007-12-25 16:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by scott 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's fine as long as it's not sexual. That doesn't mean that I would do it, though.
2007-12-24 15:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by chainsaw 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you are a nudist and you do it because you believe it is your right to be naked then it's fine.
Otherwise, some people might see it as strange.
2007-12-24 15:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by metalfacedfrog 3 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Um, no! Not okay!
Being naked is a very sexual thing, especially when it's between two people of the opposite sex! Do your parents know about this? I'm pretty sure they'd be horrified! Don't do it anymore. It's creepy that she's so much older than you & willing to do that.
2007-12-25 01:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by zmamasita 4 · 1⤊ 6⤋
its fine. if this is how you are both comfortable, then i see no problem
2007-12-27 14:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
in secret or do your families know?
If in secret, then yes, it is wrong.......if everyone knows and no one seems disturbed by it, I don't know why you should be.....if you are uncomfortable, put on some clothes.
2007-12-24 15:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋