Help im botherd in my dream (dangerous)..need advice?

Question

Last day i dream about snakes, Snakes are chasing me, i see snakes everywere and im trying to kill them. When i woke up i search in the internet (dreammoods.com) the meaning of my dream. Weeks ago i saw my mother texing all the time until now, she doesnt even want me to hold her phone anymore..but this night when she's sleeping i opened her phone (i know its her privacy) but theres something pushing me i cant explain. but then im shocked that she's calling someone MY LOVE..and when i read her sent messages it says "I THINK YOU CAN WAIT WHY UR N A HURRY?" " I NEED TO SLEEP IM BOTHERD LOVE JUST GIVE ME TIME TO THINK"" IM NOT READY LOVE" and as i read the other messages i found out that the one she's calling LOVE is a POLICE MAN. my mother and father are seperated but these things make me worried especially when read about the meaning of my dreams.. btw here's the meaning

Snake
To see a snake or be bitten by one in your dream, signifies hidden fears and worries that are threatening you.? Your dream may be alerting you to something in your waking life that you are not aware of or that has not yet surfaced. The snake may also be seen as phallic and thus symbolize dangerous and forbidden sexuality. The snake may also refer to a person around you who is callous, ruthless, and can't be trusted. As a positive symbol, snakes represent transformation, knowledge and wisdom. It is indicative of self-renewal and positive changes.

Answer 1

Well Joy, since you seem to be linking a dream of snakes together with what is going on with your Mom, it would seem that they represent that you are bothered and worried by the situation. I'm sorry to hear that your parents are separated, and I'm sure you must be upset about that, and feeling somewhat threatened by that other man in your mom's life. This is probably why she hasn't told you about him, she knows you're upset, and doesn't want you to be upset more about it. She will tell you about it when and if she is ready to, and you should let her have her privacy. I'm sure your parents had a good reason for separating, and they must work that out for themselves. I'm sure it is bothering you that there is someone new in your mom's life, and that means to you that the chances of your parents getting back together aren't good. I'm sure you would like to see your parents get back together, but that is up to them. Your mom is sending messages to this person that she's not ready, and that is also probably why she has not seen fit to tell you about it, she doesn't even know if she wants a relationship with this guy. You should respect your mom's privacy, and leave her phone alone. You should talk to your mom about it that you are upset that she and your father separated, though, and see if she will talk to you about it, and help you understand better what's going on. You shouldn't bring up the phone and text messages, but stick to the subject of her and your father getting separated, and how you're upset about it. Maybe if you can get her to talk to you about it, and help you understand what's going on, maybe it will help you feel better about things.....good luck....

Answer 2

Since the snake symbolizes male sexuality, I think that in this dream, you are expressing that you feel threatened by a male and his sexual interest in your mother.

You don't state your age but these dreams are most likely to occur in the years of awakening sexuality for girls, from about 11-15 years of age. As you see your mother expressing her sexual nature in a way you are uncomfortable with, such as dating this unknown man, it reflects for you your own fears about male sexuality and the unknown quantity that men are.

I don't think that you need to do anything about this dream, just deal with the fright it gave you. Concentrate on keeping your breathing steady and even, and put it clearly in your mind that you always have the power to choose a sexual interaction or not, and that your mother will always love you first before any man.

I think once your mom's friend is out in the open and you have dealt with your feelings about it, the dream will not be scary any more.

Best of luck.

Answer 3

For certain snakes represent lies, deceit, and deception and from the information you have given already. Your mom is not being truthful about information she is telling you, but is being deceptive toward you about certain issues. I think your dream is in reference to fears you have concerning your mom's private life. To be bitten by a snake represents that you have fallen under the power of a deception.

Answer 4

Joy... it is time to take care of your. What is going on around you is demoralizing, sad, and dark.

Your mother is writing emotional checks she cannot cash. it is all very destructive.

It is time for you to rise above it.

You take care of you. Love where you can, when you can. Accept the fact that for a period of time you are the grownup, howbeit without power.

Get involved with good friends, sports, academics, whatever it is that "floats your boat." Good activities.

Live your life, don't try to solve your parents problems, solve your own. Be as happy as you can.

You have my prayers.