I want it all the time I love to hug and kiss and have sex I'd do it everyday and he's not like me at all. I pretty much hound him and I can't stop. How do I back off?
2007-12-24 05:49:08 · 29 answers · asked by twistedtoad03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want it all the time he doesn't we live together so it's hard to keep my hands off of him. I need to back off I know I do I like hound him for sex it's pretty pitiful.
2007-12-24 05:56:20 · update #1
I love him more than sex I guess I do base how much he loves me or how attractive I am to him by how often he wants to have sex. By the way I'm 30 years old he's 32 . He is the love of my life has been since I was a kid, no we have not been together since I was a kid we were for 4 years when we were younger then we broke up and 11 years later found eachother and hooked back up. I welcome the sugestions but I'm not going gay women don't turn me on like that.
2007-12-24 07:51:10 · update #2
you don't. You enjoy it and share it!
2007-12-24 05:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by jezzabell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I pretty much have the same problem with my boyfriend and what worked for me is just talking about it with him telling him my needs!! or if he still doesn't get the idea you can buy some whipped cream, strawberry's/cherry's, get a bath going for the 2 of you, and buy some condoms and see if he understands [maybe you can try being really romantic and see if he likes that or spontaneous!! or you could offer him oral sex i don't no a guy would would turn that down lol] !! also if its a problem with you REALLY needing to have sex all the time you can try masturbation or a good work out one of those should work for you!! hope i helped -BeCkY
2007-12-24 06:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Becky D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hormonal symptoms and likings are being formed wtih the gins and hormonal bio-chemistry. One need not have to suppress the feelings. Rather , I suggest that there are many ways to satisfy the craving for the sex , either for male or female. One amongst is the toys , and they are available with operating guidelines from the website. Besides, one can consult to the doctor . Also the attention if diverted , the habit can be changed . For example, if any meditation course is adopted for some time , it will attract to spirituality. That will have the diversion of mind. Besides, other activities like exercise, aerobics, swimming,gardening , OR COUNSELLING for questions, if adopted for more time, automatically the craving for some specific things will be curbed. Reikie, Arts of Living are the alternative solutions .Also, the site of spiritual aspects can be browesed which will show a path .
2007-12-24 06:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anil S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're risking an unwanted pregnancy. If you love to hug and kiss, you should consider having a lesbian relationship. Society may say its wrong to be gay / lesbian, but this is also the same society who once said slavery was OK, discrimination against women is OK (it still is in some areas), and Christians claim you either believe in the lord and the bible, or burn in hell (this is a scare tactic to shock you into converting).
Experiment with women, and see if this works. Look into sex toys to pleasure yourself; there's absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating several times a day.
2007-12-24 06:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Corporate America !! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you think this is bad?
Is it becasue you are doing it for an inner reason and not because you really like it?
Is it grounded in self esteem issues where you get your worth from excessive sex?
Do you base your personal approval rating with yourself on how you satisfy a man or yourself?
Is it a control issue to where you like to control a man through sex?
If it is none of these things, then find another boyfriend and have sex every day. Sex is great as long as it is not for another reaason like past abuse or another issue such as aggresion or violence.
Merry chirstmas and happy love making....
2007-12-24 05:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by Alan W 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You do not state your age. Could be hormones, or a result of a recent death in your life (the brain does odd things.) Or, could be mis-matched sexually, happens all the time.
If your libido is in fact out of whack, don't freak. It's natural.
Whatever you do, take precautions!
2007-12-24 05:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by Desdamona 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start a 12-step program. Sexaholics Anonymous, I believe it's called.
2007-12-24 05:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wish my wife had your problem.I want it all the time and shes good for once a month!
2007-12-24 05:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kev L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start working out, it is healthy and will help get rid of some of that excess energy!
2007-12-24 05:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by jjmoose2001 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
pull over to the curb and turn off the ignition
2007-12-24 05:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by checkyou4tics 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
grow up, pick what is more important to you sex or him. If he really is more important it wont be hard to get rid of it.
all else fails, masturbate like everybody else.
2007-12-24 05:58:17 · answer #11 · answered by Armin h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋