So how do i talk my parents into getting me birth control?
2007-12-24 05:25:31 · 21 answers · asked by x 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 16 and no they dont know i'm sexually active.
2007-12-24 05:29:36 · update #1
at 16 you can get pills and your parents dont need to know. well if the law allows you where you live. then you just go to the gyno and get the birth control by yourself.
2007-12-24 23:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by baywatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holly,
Insist on he using a condom, or you use a female condom. This is very important to make sure you dont get into any accidental pregnancy or even any sexually transmitted diseases. If none of these are possible, dont have penetrative sex with him. Please do this.
He is your boy friend, not your husband. When he does want to use a condom, actually, he is showing very little concern or respect for your safety. And you are just 16. Much more than the pleasures you get from his physical intimacy, you have to think about a long life ahead of you. For that you need to be cautious.
Other birth control methods may not be nice for you at this young age, they may have certain implications for you. And they need medical supervision.
Being in love is also about being responsible to each other.
Take care.. All the best..
Merry Christmas and A Very Happy New Year to You..
2007-12-24 05:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by doer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heads up, this isn't really about your boyfriend's preferences, what he feels, or likes or dislikes.
If you're going to have sex, or if you're already engaged in it, then grow the rest of the way up and take responsiblity for the consequences of unprotected sex.
It certainly won't be your boyfriend who gets to raise the child you two produce from unprotected sex. You are a potential mommy in the making. This is about you taking responsibility for yourself and what YOU do in life, with your life.
Stand up and insist on a condom or no sex at all. Your boyfriend takes responsibility for his own part in your sex together. Then, you also need protection as well. You can call the doctor yourself and ask for birth control pills, you can call around your community till you find places that will dispense birth control to you. You can tell your parents to see if they will support you to acquire birth control pills. But no sex until you are protected against unwanted pregnancy or worse.
2007-12-24 05:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by autumlovr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a free clinic or planned parenthood clinic in your area? you might want to google that....cuz they can give you the pills for free and they cant legally tell your parents. But there are other reasons to take birth control...just complain that your cramps are unbearable or if you have acne and cant get rid of it tell your mom that you heard that birth control can help reduce it[which it can] or tell them your period is irregular and you want to regulate it. [these are all legit excuses other than to protect against pregnancy, so they can work] :) but if you are over 18 your family doctor can just give you it, and your parents cant have any say in it...and if they ask- just give them a reason i mentioned above.
2007-12-24 05:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by southernxgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no! dont try to make him happy cause he doesnt like to use condoms! it's about being SAFE. not what HE likes. Birth control isn't 100% effective. so, either he uses a condom or he dont get none! simple as that!
2007-12-24 05:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by brittnee.babyy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay well you should have a talk with this boyfriend of yours. tell him that youre the one who is at risk of getting pregnant. and if you do get pregnant, its all because he "didnt feel like using a condom". that doesnt really sound fair to me.
but if this doesnt work, tell your parents that you get horrible periods and birth control would help the situation. i hope i helped!
2007-12-24 05:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very important because the use of the condom canprevent you to get infected with AIDS . Talk to your parents and boyfriend.
2007-12-24 05:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by ranudita2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM. That is very selfish on his part. Chances are, a guy like that won't stick around if you were to get pregnant. And how many other girls has he had sex with and not used a condom with? THINK before you get yourself into a mess.
2007-12-24 05:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a real easy one. Tell him he has a choice between a wedding ring or a condom. And if you are to young to get married then you are to young to be having sex.
2007-12-24 05:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them it is time but foremost you still make him. Birth control is not 100% believe me I know. It also does not protect you from std's. But simply you tell your mother it is time because you dont want to get pregnant and you just want to be careful and she will understand!!!
2007-12-24 05:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by belbiv1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋