I want to change my self. My looks and all. I got up today with this feeling like "I'm going to face my self and leave this depression"...but I can't do it alone.
I'm too nice of a person and sometimes believe I'm a "push over" but I think if I start to become meaner God will hate me or some thing will came back to me. So I really try not to sin.
ummmmmm I think I'm ugly but people tell me I'm not...(to the people who think they are cute...what are some tips you use?)
Eatting...I eat stuff like foods high in Vitamin C and D because I get acne (yeah I know being a teen sucks lol) but I want to get bigger (6 pack) so I have to eat meat...do meat or foods with wheat have anything to do with acne ?
^^^I ate a chicken today...I feel a little better...I think...
I been depressed long enough and want to enjoy life again...but I just can't get happy and do the stuff I like any more...it's like depression is holding me down.
Sorry about my typeing.
2007-12-24 05:01:25 · 6 answers · asked by ew 2 de extreme 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
no jokes huh,
why did the chicken cross the road?
LOL! im just joking around with you
my advise, um, stay in school
2007-12-24 05:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
People who are "push overs" are quite simply people pleasers, not "too nice". They carry a lot of anger over the fact that they can't say no and care more about how they look to others.
It has nothing to do with becoming "meaner" at all. It has everything to do with being mature, responsible for yourself and protecting yourself.
Your depression is anger turned inward on yourself instead of where it belongs...at those who have taken advantage of you. Start to say no more often, and think of your well-being more and you won't be angry or depressed.
Start to live from truth, honesty and self-denial and be REAL, not the people pleasing phony you have become.
2007-12-24 14:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
join gym or get gym set for your room its winter time so by spring u could make heads turn learn be funny and honest dont be aafraid to speak your mind some call me a asshole im ugly nice funny and fat but i still get girls confidence all in the mind and your pose and not to lie also in the clothes, pick up writing rimes, jokes, lyrics, etc never be a follower a leader be the center of attention and always be a good lending ear and u will have so many friends u be sick of them learn to dance merenque thats more impressive cuz then u could have a advantage on dancing with more girls cuz no one today knows how to dance that salsa is better but harder hope this helps
2007-12-24 13:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being too nice is being too submissive. The three main behaviors are Dominant, Assertive and Submissive.
Be Assertive, able to state your own needs and interests with out bullying or begging.
You don't have to include being mean as a way to balance your kindness and sensitivity. Maintain your own opinions and practice treating yourself with the honor you give others.
Best wishes.
2007-12-24 13:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look into therapy, sounds like the depression is more than a casual kind that will go away on it's own. once you do that all the rest will come naturally
2007-12-24 13:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by insanityx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change that mask
2007-12-25 00:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋