Maybe its me but do all men lie and cheat?
2007-12-24 02:01:05 · 28 answers · asked by luckyme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, it's you. Not all men cheat, nor do all women...but once we've been on the receiving end of that treatment it's easy to think they do. We're wounded. We know we've healed to some degree when we don't think in extremes so much anymore...but there are still scars. There will always BE scars. Wear them as a badge of honor. Merry Christmas. Semper Fidelis (USMC)
2007-12-24 02:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they exist, you just have to look for them in the right places and make sure that they have the right values in life. Sometimes "we" might be looking for the wrong thing (i.e. sexy, smooth talker, or high paying job) those would usually be the first thing that attracts you to the person. You might want to try a more "humble" looking guy with no big issues attached to him. But then everyone is imperfect, so even the "perfect" nice and honest guys will have their own particular quirks to work on, but don't give up. Persevere and know that it really is not to much to ask for a guy who doesn't lie or cheat.
2007-12-24 10:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it you? Are you only attracted to guys like that? Do you skip over guys that aren't the focal point of the room, the best dressed, the loudest, the richest? Look at other places besides singles bars. Find other types of clubs, get involved with things that interest you. Even politics - there's a lot of stuff going on now. How about hiking groups, bird watchers, lectures at the local college, neighborhood groups. Then don't be afraid to ask the guy out. Some of the longest lasting relationships that I've seen start out that way. A lot of guys are too shy to ask the girl out, and think that they aren't in the same league.
2007-12-24 10:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by DoItRite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the nice and honest men are already taken... by the really mean women. I don't think all men cheat, maybe lie... whatever type of guys you are having problems with, try dating a different type of guy you've never dealt with. You may be just attracted to the ones that arent good for you
2007-12-24 10:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by tuyet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did some things in the past I'm not proud of, but now 35 y.o., I reckon I could call myself honest and decent...
I've never cheated or tried to sleep with a girl that wasn't single
2007-12-24 10:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by Steve D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES THEY DO!!! I know plenty you just have to look harder. I understand like, 80% of this world's population of men cheat & lie, but there are plenty of nice, honest guys out there and im sure there is one for you. good luck (:
2007-12-24 11:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by akgirl1105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of good men out there. I have never cheated in any of my relationships.
2007-12-24 10:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most start out nice and honest, but life soon teaches us that those things don't do any good in your personal or professional life.
2007-12-24 10:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are good men out there. You just have to look.
2007-12-24 10:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jasper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men but you just have to be more selective. The younger they are the more options they have and the harder it is to be faithful!!!! But if you are meeting them in bars, less likely to be worthwhile.....Meet them in church and I get the feeling they are better men.
2007-12-24 10:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by belbiv1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋